So he says he wants to go out with me but he wants to go out with this other girl who happens to be a close friend, but she doesn't live in this state. His thing is the he will go out with her when she comes down...I was like well what happens if and when she goes back home then you guys are going to brake up then ur both going to get hurt?.... right?....and hes like I dunno. But if he goes out with her then i won't go out with him cuz i don't date my friends ex's( i think this is a good thing) So should i move on or go out with him untill she gets down here which is like sometime(mabey) in like june?.... She may not even come down at all...?
2007-03-01 07:14:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sort of a tricky situation but to simplify it my advice to you is that if the guy is nice enough and you like him and think there might be potential to keep seeing this guy until the girl comes down, and then when she does, if you two have a strong enough bond, when she leaves he will realize that you two are meant to be together and he will like you even more. Try and turn this thing into a positive, keep your cool and don't freak out. Good luck.
2007-03-01 07:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by DN1503 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie: Any guy who isn't into you is not worth the time or this ad for that matter. Why would you want a guy that focuses on someone else? Wouldn't it be nice to actually meet a guy that is just into YOU? Why even bother with the back and forth of a casual relationship that will probably go nowhere to begin with?
Either A) You are good in bed and he is using you for sex, until somehting or someone more meaningful comes into his life...
B). He has major issues when it comes to making decisions in life...
C). He is playing head games with you
D) He likes this girl and uses you to get closer to her.
I guess I left the question is your lap.
Seriously, be a woman...not a girl when it comes down to men...
2007-03-01 07:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by maimie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you won't date your friends' ex's but yet you are willing to date him so long as she isn't in town. You need to get your values straight. If you want to be the girl he runs to when she is not there, then wait for him. If you have any self respect and morals, then you will move on and find your own man who doesn't have a girl waiting on him. Thank you and good luck.
2007-03-01 07:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk away from him for sure. You shouldnt even question yourself on this. If he tells you he likes your friend and is going to date her, but might as well date you while you are here for convenience, that is not the right guy to be with. You need to find a guy, that only wants your attention. Move on, for sure!
2007-03-01 07:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by sjhockeyfan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you choose to wait in the wings for 'girlfreinds' leftovers. If you know the guy wants to go out with your freind... step aside and let him go out with her! You too have the power to choose who to date. He is not worth you getting sloppy seconds.
Find a nice young man you are attracted to.. who thinks you are the bomb and worships the ground you walk on Honeychild!
Young men are wanting to date just like you. They are just slow asking for fear of rejection. Help a brother out!!!!
2007-03-01 07:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he likes her and wants to go out with her but only when shes down there it doesnt sound like hes sure about either one of you and what does she think about this because she might not want him to see other girls when shes gone but if she doesnt even like him it doesnt matter and its up to you whether you want to get hurt because you might and its good to think of both of them too but is the chance of you getting hurt too woth the risk
2007-03-01 07:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u serious? you are asking this guy to dump you for your friends when she comes back??? and this loser won't even think of the consequences?? You both sound way too young for this!
2007-03-01 07:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by AMS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you honestly think it's smart to start a relationship like this? with all this retarded drama? Look, i bet you are a beautiful girl, don't bother with that loser. Get yourself a real man. Have more respect for yourself.
2007-03-01 07:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by ..:: Liz ::.. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well he sounds kinda rude to go out with you then go out with her just cause she is gonna be there so i would say move on to a better guy who will stay with you!!
2007-03-01 07:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by FairyPrincess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont be witha guy unless u r the only one he wants... he will end up cheating on you ... i learned that the hard way and it is the most heat breaking thing ever! dont do it he is probably a jerk u just dont kno it yet
2007-03-04 12:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋