He has already had me make out with the guy and bf says it excited him to see. It sounds hot and I might like to try it, but I am only 17 a little shy and nervious about it.
Has anyone ever tried it? What is it like? Would you do it again?
Please help...........
2007-03-01 07:11:01 · 29 answers · asked by sandi C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesnt want to do anything with the guy he wants me to. Then he wants me to himself after the other guy and I have finished.
2007-03-01 07:18:05 · update #1
The other thing is my bf is my first, I would like to kn ow how another guy would feel doing it.
2007-03-01 07:34:45 · update #2
I've never done that myself, but I've known several couples who have and my impression is that it taints the trust and the respect.
2007-03-01 07:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
17 years old, and you're already putting out.. wow!!!!!!!! ,Any way back to your question, I think you seriously need to re-evaluate this situation your boyfriend is asking you join him in bed with another man-something about that just doesn't seem right, and frankly is a little dangerous, do you even know the other guy.? And why does your bf want to see you in action with another guy- I mean most men hate the fact of sharing their woman. The only exception is with another woman which is just a guy thing really.. I've never tried it, don't want to try it, and there would never a first time.. Girl you really need to think about this.
2007-03-01 07:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by bh09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is that you are only 17 years old, doing all of this experimenting all ready.
Then, this boy doesn't love you at all, and you are totally being used.
If he really loved you, he would not dare want to share you with his best friend.
He is going to make a total fool out of you. What would you be getting from this whole ordeal, other than a horrible reputation.
2007-03-01 07:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy and nervous are fine and normal, but if you don't think those are the only feelings your having about it, you might not want to do it.
That being said, the older you get, the less freedoms you'll grant yourself and the less likely it'll be that this situation will ever come up again so you have to ask yourself.
Which will you regret more? Trying it out or not being able to tell your kids/grandkids one day what a wild vixen you once were...
I'd tell you to go for it, I know I definitely get a little jealous when I think of my wife's stories along those lines I don't have anything that can compete....*yet* :winks:
2007-03-01 07:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by arjo_reich 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok so this is next 3 sum sex then disease and if you think your bf will keep you after your in for a rude awakening . this is their hormonal age high levels as well as yours.. all sounds hm.. exciting until u want one of them to take ya out do things they will think of u as a sex ho and this is truth .. they cant respect people like that to be true to them in the future and as far as you, you certainly cant trust him look what he has you doing so far? ey ? it isnt love nor respect but if u like random sex for that then you will be trashed sadly somehow.. someway it can ruin ur career chances in college or work field if they spread the news and for petes sake do not let them take videos which will be next as well or pix.. this should have some self exteem in your own self respect. this is what fantasies are for u 2 pretend to do that not for real it will break u 2 down ..you want to be hurt>? in some form?
2007-03-01 07:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only going to do this to please your boyfriend then DON'T. He sounds a little freakish and if he can't accept that you are not ready and he is still pressuring you, its definitely not worth it. And no I have not tried it, I wouldn't. Maybe you need to do some research if you think it sounds "hot" it means both of them are going to be in a hole at the same time, think about that...
2007-03-01 07:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried it... and I totally wish I could take it back. It will create doubt, trust issues, jealousy, resentment, and accusations within the relationship... or at least it did with mine. But all people are different... it may not for you. However, if you don't want to then don't. Don't do it for your boyfriend because he wants you to but because you want to. I did it for all the wrong reasons and regret every single bit of it. I would not suggest it...
2007-03-01 07:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by Love Me or Hate Me... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A GUYS POINT OF VIEW I would NEVER Shari my girl with any 1 cos 1 she may like the guy more than me 2 you do not know what STD he has you may be sorry
2007-03-02 10:40:33 · answer #8 · answered by larry C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have a 3 becuz thats low rating yourself and if your boy really cared about you he wouldnt want no other boy seeing your body, your body is a temple. Dont do it becuz he gone figure your easy and who want to marry a girl who is willing to do anything, he will respect you later on in life for not doing that.
2007-03-01 07:18:38 · answer #9 · answered by SWEETIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have tried it and no I would not do it again. My ex was excited about it till it happened then he was always accusing me of cheating with the guy behind his back. It ruined my relationship. Just my opinion.
2007-03-01 07:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by slw_402000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love this guy don't do it cause things like jealousy will happen. He just might get jealous if enjoy his friend more than him. He shouldn't be asking you to do that anyway if he loves and respects you. That's disrespectful to your body.
2007-03-01 07:16:37 · answer #11 · answered by curtis t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋