Me and my gf were going out for 2 months then out of know where breaks up with me saying she needed time to get things together. Also said she still loved me. But now she is hanging on and thinking about asking out my best friend! Whats going on and what should I do? HELP!
2007-03-01 07:04:10 · 13 answers · asked by TJ B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should get out there and meet NEW chicks. immediately. 'I need time to get things together', is a nice way of tellin u she isn't feelin u anymore, you're boring, etc. don't waste your time and energy fretting over a chick who obviously doesn't want u. get out and meet new chicks and when she see's u with a new hottie she'll probably have second thoughts. then when she tries to get at u again u tell her: ' well i would but i need time. . . .'
GOT IT??
2007-03-01 07:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 2 months isn't exactly a long time. Maybe she has always liked your bestfriend and decided to hook up with you just to get close to him. I think you should really ask her what her intentions are in regards to your relationship? And simply state that you won't be put aside while this chick goes around and checks her "options". Because you seem like a good guy,who deserves a good HONEST WOMAN, in your life. So go find one..please you'll only end up hurt in the end if you stay. good luck
2007-03-01 07:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by bh09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your ex is a coward... she said things to you like needing time, and I still love you, just to keep from hurting your feelings and telling you the truth. If she cared about you she would not even consider asking out your friend... you need to let her go and find someone that is deserving of you time...
2007-03-01 07:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by ***Girlie Girl*** 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's going on is that she isn't that into you. She doesn't love you if she's leaving you and she doesn't love you if she's thinking about going out with your best friend. It sounds to me like she's not ready for a relationship...move on.
2007-03-01 07:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by geminig 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but she's playing games with you. You don't love someone after 2 months of dating. Especially if after those two months you dump them and ask out their best friend.
She's got issues, and you don't need to deal with them. She's clearly confused, insensitive and untrustworthy, so let her go.
2007-03-01 07:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by Canadian Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is girl is really insecure about herself. She's still holding on to you in case your best friend says no. That's ridiculous. You need to move on because there is better out there for you. There are other girls that won't treat you like crap.
2007-03-01 07:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her, she's just yanking you around. Alot of immature girls do this. They don't want the person that they're with but they don't want to be alone, so they yank the guy they're trying to lose around until they have secured someone new. Once they secure a new guy they never look back! She doesn't love you, she loves herself and not being alone.
2007-03-01 07:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
any girl that wouyld be so insensative as to ask out an ex's best friend is not worth the time of day. If your best friend is REALLY your best friend.. he will nip this one before it goes anywhere.. if he goes out with her .. he is NOT the firend you thought and deserves her cheating hurtful ways!!
2007-03-01 07:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems shes moved on and is ready to date other guys. If you have a close comfortable relationship ask if she still has feelings for you and if not try to move on too. Good luck!
2007-03-01 07:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt sound like love to me, she sounds like a user. I hope you best friend doesnt wind up dating her. Be glad she is an ex.
2007-03-01 07:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋