and when do know whether you're "in love" or just love someone?
2007-03-01 06:58:34 · 11 answers · asked by raptureinkisses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are not happy overall, not just in the heat of a disagreement;If you find yourself compromising things you never thought you would. When you get that little voice in the back of your head saying "this isn't me" that is when enough is enough.
As far as being "in love" or loving someone, that is a tough call.
If you love someone, chances are you won't have sexual feelings for them -- if you are "in love" sex would be a part of the relationship I guess....there really is no "easy" way to know.
2007-03-01 07:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by itsjustme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love someone, you would never have to ask this question. If you feel like you might have had enough, then you have had enough. You might feel pangs, but that is only because of a fear of letting go of what you know. When you really love someone, you have no doubts, you just know, and even if you get mad as h*** at them, you still always find it in your heart to feel love for them. So many people stay in unhappy relationships because they are so used to having someone around, life is all about venturing into the unknown to find true happiness, and you will know when you have found it.
2007-03-01 08:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking yourself those questions then you know the answer. You're just afraid of change. What would you do if you weren't afraid? By the time you need to ask someone else if you have endured enough, you have already endured too much. As for love... same thing... if you're questioning whether or not you're really in love... you're not.
2007-03-01 07:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me you have it the wrong way round.
'In love' is that heady, whirling excitement when you meet someone new and you fall for them instantly and you want to spend all day every day with them.
This can either fade away, or pop in a moment the illussion shatters and you suddenly go 'urggh what did I ever see in you' or it deepens into the deepest feelings of love when you can stand a day apart but not a life apart when that person is your best friend, the person you most respect, your hero, the person you know you can always turn to no matter what and you realise that the more you know the more you want to know and a lifetime with this person is not enough.
2007-03-01 07:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by Leapling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 questions? Enough is enough when it happens over and over and the learning curve isn't there. Prob now. You know you're in love when it's more then just caring.
2007-03-01 07:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enough is enough when you just can't be bothered anymore.
When you're in love you will just know, you won't need to question it. You can just love someone when you care deeply for them but don't feel sexually attracted to them.
2007-03-01 07:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by Poppy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you just know when your in love its a totally different feeling to just loving someone
2007-03-01 08:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by missperfection 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU JUST KNOW WHEN YOUR TRULY UNHAPPY ALWAYS LISTEN TO YOURSELF ONLY U CAN PUT YOURSELF THROUGH MISERY SO IF U WANNA BE FREE AND SINGLE YOU WILL JUST TELL HIM U DO NT LOVE AND MOVE ON HAPPIER TO FIND MISTER RIGHT
2007-03-01 07:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by silkyladyxxx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you cant take no more when you are being treated in such a way you wouldn't yourself treat anybody else if that makes any sense to you
2007-03-01 07:17:21 · answer #9 · answered by steve738494 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im trying to figger that one out myself!
2007-03-01 07:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by red devil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋