Help! I'm 13 years old and I was just instant messaging. This guy added me and I don't even know him but I accepted anyway. He asked for my name and I told him. We found out that we were the same age. I was being friendly, asking him questions about his hobbies and stuff. Then he started calling me 'babe' and I got really scared. He introduced me to all of his friends in a convo and said I was his girlfreind! Now, he's asking for my photo! I said no but he won't give in! I'm sooooooooo scared!
2007-03-01 06:45:25 · 11 answers · asked by :) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then just quit talking to him. No big deal. As long as he doesn't know where you live, what can he do?
2007-03-01 06:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, IM isn't risky as long as you employ it good. Now what this guy is doing in called Grooming. that's a technaical term for whilst human beings attempt to make realtionships with human beings even whilst the (preditor) the guy who's talking to you sounds like they are danger loose. listed below are some signs and indicators. Does he argree with everthing you assert? consistently take your component? Act fairly afraid that u might get mad at him? those are all signs and indicators. If I have been you i might inform you to bypass on your interior reach police sation, and document him. He may well be a sexual predotar that has or will harm different peole. Now do not go surfing until you confer with the police. Like i say it fairly is extra useful to be alive and in troble then lifeless in a ditch. you besides might could be extra careful approximately providing you with call and age out on the information superhighway. this might draw much extra preditors. on no account use a MySpace or something of the variety besides it is likewise inquiring for preditors to return and confer with you. tell all your previous IM acquaintances which you have become a sparkling account and be sure which you do set your new account to dam all human beings you do not enable. There are some super used for the i-internet yet you're able to be very careful. U could document this scum, ok? you will possibly not comprehend it now even however that's imporant! additionally you're able to set up some kinda of a code so as which you comprehend who's on the different end even no rely if it is your friends e mail there may well be hackers. it fairly is extra useful to be risk-free that sorry. there is likewise a software called iSafe which could show you how to. they have a internet site you are able to in basic terms google it! don't be afraid, There are human beings available to help those with ur strategies-blowing undertaking! it fairly is sweet! superb of success Kyra
2016-10-17 00:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
First off sweety , you never give your name to anyone in chat rooms and you never get personal . Last but not least you never know who is on the other side of the computer that you are talking to .
Yes it is true that they cannot do any physical harm but if you find that this person is overwhelming you , logg off .
Be careful
C
2007-03-01 07:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2007-03-01 06:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like an older guy or a loser. Put him on ignore and quit talking to him. Be careful, you never know what you are getting on the net. Don't ever give out any information!!!! Tell your parents if he continues to bug you.
2007-03-01 06:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents and remove him. He is not 13. He is probably in his 40's. This is dangerous for you. Don't contact or speak to him again. Also do not agree to IM anyone you do not know.
2007-03-01 06:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not comfortable with any of these contacts just delete them. Most IM's have a blocking function to keep people you don't want to speak to away. Never be afraid to do what you need to do to protect yourself.
2007-03-01 06:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't talk to this guy anymore. it is possible that he is your age but more likely than not he is a pedafile(child molester) it could be very dangerous, don't ever tell people anything personal about you even if they send you pictures and they look alright, cuz most likely they are fake pics. please be careful and don't ever agree to meet anyone.
2007-03-01 06:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha....first timer....um is safe as long as u dont give ur personal info away......the other person doesnt know where u are...but be carefull...some guys (around their 40-50) go online and pretend to be kids...only to find out they sexually harrass them...be careful
2007-03-01 06:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is never trust a person unless you know them one of my friends met a person that raped her and do NOT tell them your adress or your phone number if you dont know them it would just be best if you deleted them now
2007-03-01 06:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by Alexis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋