Why do women like bad boys? I get told I'm so nice, so sweet, the worst I've heard was you remind me of my brother! I'm kind, polite, good looking, fairly intelligent and working, yet I cant find a girlfriend whilst some jerks who beat up women have girls all over them! What am I doing wrong? How do I change my image? The only women who seem very interested in me are in relationships already and only like me because their men treat them badly, help me someone before I go crazy!
2007-03-01 06:42:19 · 14 answers · asked by Keplaz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be yourself. Treat a girl the way you intend on treating her. Don't change into a bad boy...changing into one is the worst thing you can do. As for those girls who like bad boys...stay away from them. Only bad things can happen if you hang out with those types of girls. I would know...I learned that lesson the hard way.
2007-03-04 14:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by alwang92581 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
women date bad boys, but marry good ones. Just like guys like to date the "popular" girl, but the girl they bring home to meet the parents is the nice one.
As to the beaters, women, children, pets, are ALL attentive to the beater. The reason is, they can't emotionally get away, and if they're BAD they get another beating, so don't believe they WANT to be there or they prefer those people.
You're not doing anything wrong, unless it's looking for the wrong type of girl. Your current image is what will pay off in the end
Keep looking. She's out there wondering why she can't find a nice guy!!!
2007-03-01 06:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sarge1572 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I had the same problem, I found out that the type of woman that wanted the "bad boy" really wasnt the type of woman I wanted to be with.
You would be suprised where you will find love, and from whom is really atracted to you. try to learn to read body language, and look into peoples eyes, it will tell you alot.
I have been in relationships where women had been treated like crap, then i came along treated them great, but the women seemed to thrive on the bad atention that they used to get, my ex wife begged me one time to just hit her.......I didnt I left, we were divoriced 3 months later, her current husban beats the crap out of her, and she stays, an says shes happy.
So do yourself a favor look at personality the things you have in commen. not looks, and just be who you are
2007-03-01 06:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by George G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you know that opposites attract. besides we all now woman are from another planet, being infactuated over a woman that is being treated like dirt is as normal as being attracted to your brother or cousins woman ,(if they are abused and you think they deserve better). unfortunately the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
2007-03-01 06:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by postmasterfsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont change yourself cause not all women are into bad guys and plus theres a woman out there who will like you for you.
So... don't even think about changing yourself dude
2007-03-01 06:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman and prefer a sweet intelligent man over an ****** brute any day!
2007-03-04 21:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by Mari76 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not that I prefer one of the other. Just bad boys are the only ones that approach me.
2007-03-01 06:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They are immature. A mature woman appreciates the better qualities of men.
2007-03-01 06:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont like badboys..
I like a guy who is very unique..
he doesn't have to be nice..
but sure can have a well conversation with him..do not change for some1 else.
find some1 who will like u for who u are.
2007-03-01 06:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by Gõlden angel 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
honey dont change there are not many good men out there.stay the way you are cause god knows what kinda crazy chick u will pick up
2007-03-01 06:48:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋