we're good friends.
we hardly have time together.
she has completely different hobbies to be.
she has different interests.
but we still have a good freindship.
she may have a boyfriend.
she MAY be interested in me - but maybe ONLY as a friend.
I love her to pieces.
do i ask her out?
ps. its not about sex.
2007-03-01 06:30:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what if, she has a different view of me after she says no.
i dont want to ruin my friendship.
2007-03-01 06:38:57 · update #1
what if, she has a different view of me after she says no.
i dont want to ruin my friendship.
2007-03-01 06:39:09 · update #2
i want to be closer to her. is a relationship the way forward?
i think shes a "no sex before marriage" kind of person. so...
2007-03-01 06:46:39 · update #3
opposites attract :)
take it slow.
see what happens.
even if things don't work out sounds like
you guys are friends.
keep trying.
sometimes God puts people in others' lives
to help them get through a specific or difficult time.
:) it'll work out.
2007-03-01 07:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by thatonegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello, ok a couple of thoughts have wondered across my brain, on one hand you have a good friendship, friends especially true friends are hard to come by do you want to loose that?
if its not about sex why ask her out?? you already spend time with her, do you want her friendship or her sex?
if your good friends why dont you actually know if she has a bloke or not? how much do u know about her?
ok thats devils advocate talking, on the lighter side, i do think life would be boring if we dated people thye same as us. only you can decide just think about this, do you want loose her friendship? or regret never asking her??
2007-03-01 14:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by kellythered 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but when you say 'it's not about sex' says to me that you are aren't sexually attracted to her.
You can become attracted to someone if you spend alot of time with them but you need to be sexually attracted to them to make a relationship truly work.
Friendship is a good basis but this is not enough, don't confuse platonic relationships with romantic relationships.
Good luck x
2007-03-01 14:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by Poppy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life would be so dull if we all liked the same things, I think opposite-people relationships work really well as long as, despite your differences, you care about eachother.
2007-03-01 15:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try to do some of her hobbies. if you do "love her to pieces" then you need to talk to her. ask questions. does she have a bf, would she want a bf. things like that.
then, if all goes well ask the girl out.
you never know, she could have a mad passion for you and you might never know it untill you ask!!=]
good luck =]
2007-03-01 14:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by <3 me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel you have a connection of something more then friendship then go ahead and ask her to that dinner,movie,etc.
Couldnt hurt right,cause if your good friends then even if you dont go furthur you'll still be friends.
2007-03-01 14:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by outta my mind 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like its a ? you sould ask her!....You have deep feelings I can see but sometimes its only best to go to the one you wanna know cause if not you may never know and knowing could be the answer your looking for!
2007-03-01 14:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by flyangel1118 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if she's different. Go for it. Life isn't perfect and you don't always get what you want. Good Luck.
2007-03-01 16:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ask her out... opposites attract... and you will never get the answers to you questions unless you ask...
2007-03-01 14:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by ***Girlie Girl*** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep searching
2007-03-01 14:45:32 · answer #10 · answered by kyle.keyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋