First of all, serious answers. I don't need you ladies to tell me I'm an asshole. I probably am, but telling me so isn't going to answer my question.
So I would consider myself a fairly attractive guy and up until this point I've dated only very attractive thin women. But I recently became friends with this girl who is funny, smart, and interesting and who I really like being around except for one problem: she's overweight. And it's not like I like the fact that she's fat, but for some reason I don't mind it so much anymore. I find her weirdly sexy. I think I'm seriously falling for this chick. But I'm in a frat and I know that if I were to ask her out, my friends would never let me stop hearing about it. She's got a boyfriend that she's having problems with, and I think that right now is the perfect opportunity for me to step in. But damn it, I'm not afraid to admit it, I do care about what other people think. So how the hell do I deal with my friends? And is it even worth it?
2007-03-01 06:13:30 · 10 answers · asked by mar5645 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, I like your attitude. I don't think you sound like an asshole at all. You actually sound like a pretty cool guy. It sounds like you are very attracted to this girl. Almost like....love?! Forget the frat guys! I'm sure they'll hound you about it but I'm also sure if they're not hounding you about this, they are hounding you about something. Take a chance and go out with her. I think that guys that are a little overweight can be sexy too. They don't have to be the perfect body type to be sexy. Someone can be sexy just by their actions alone sometimes. I would much rather prefer an average looking guy who was sweet and loved to laugh to a drop dead gorgeous guy that was cocky and arrogant.
2007-03-09 00:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good for you ~ You are able to be attracted to the person and not just a socially imposed image. Life has all sorts of challenges and not getting the approval of some immatureFrat boys should hopefully be the worst thing that ever happens to you.
It is possible that many of them deal with the same issues but all lack the courage to deal.
This is someone who might be perfect for you for your WHOLE life - maybe it would be worth quitting the frat - they don't sound like stellar individuals anyway.
2007-03-02 00:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by mitsimia 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I learned a long time ago that what we are attracted to can REALLY surprise us at times! And so enjoy. This is what you say to your friends: "She is an awesome girl and I like her a lot." If they say something nasty after that, fook them. Let me put it this way: haven't you ever met a really gorgeous person and there was NO attraction? Yup! It works in all directions.
2007-03-02 20:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care what your friends think leave the girl alone,at least till you grow some bal#s
2007-03-08 20:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's funny, smart, interesting and "weirdly sexy" I think she's too good for you. Sorry to say.
2007-03-03 01:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Ash 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is nice, consider girl's heart not body, that gives warmth and happiness ? I really does
2007-03-07 23:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what your friends think! Go 4 it!
2007-03-09 13:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for her. You never know where it could lead you, and it sounds like it would be a good match. If you do, good luck!
2007-03-05 03:48:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dose it really matter??? if you like this girl than it dosent matter what she looks like
2007-03-08 04:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel, thats all you can do
2007-03-09 09:25:28 · answer #10 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋