I am currently dating a man that I am 100% in love with. Not too long ago I ran into a guy (a guy that I have known and hated for years) at a bar that happened to know my boyfriends ex. The guy told me that my boyfriend supposedly fell in love with her after only 2 weeks and was talking about marriage! I truly believe that he is very much in love with me but now I'm scared that it isn't as special as I had thought. What if he falls in love with every girl he dates?! I don't want to loose him because he is the best thing that has ever happened to me....but how can I forget what that guy told me and believe that everything my boyfriend tells me genuine?
2007-03-01 05:57:04 · 13 answers · asked by Shoe Gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, I wouldn't worry about it. It's not like he did anything wrong. Some people just fall in love quickly and deeply...my husband and I "knew" after only about a month that we wanted to get married. Just enjoy things as they come and stop worrying about it! :)
2007-03-01 06:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You putting way too much thought into this. All that matters is who is is now. And who he is now is the man that is in love with you. Does it really matter who he thought he loved in the past? Are you even sure that the information you got from a guy you hated for years is even accurate? Even if what the guy told you is true, your boyfriend isn't the same guy he was then. He's grown. He's matured.
Here's all you have to remember. He's the best thing that ever happened to you. He loves you now. Is there really anything other than the small bit on information, that may or may not be true that suggests that what your boyfriend says is not true? If not, then don't let the words of one guy you hate effect you in such a way. Have more confidence in your decisions.
2007-03-01 06:06:48 · answer #2 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend. Open the lines of communication. Tell him what was said and how you feel about it.
You are taking the word of someone.
You haven't even talked to your guy yet about this and you already have it built up in your mind that your relationship is doomed.
My skin crawls every time i hear someone say..he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Never rely on someone else to be the best part of you. You need to be the best for yourself.
2007-03-01 06:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by Barb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you surely need to enable this bypass. all human beings has a prior alongside with your self why are you so prepared approximately his previous. in case you're severe a pair of relationship you're able to artwork on the present and the destiny. in case you're so prepared approximately this adult men previous, why is the subsequent guy going to be any different. he will have a prior too. Are you going to obsess on his previous?
2016-10-17 00:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't concentrate on that. In certain situations you can't believe what other people tell you about the other person. Sometimes it turns out to be wrong, and even if it's true, don't bring it into the relationship.
2007-03-01 06:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not believe everything that your boyfriend tells you. but on the other hand why would you even listin to the guy that you have hated for years there must be a reason that you do not like him or trust him, yet you are letting what he says interfer with your life.
2007-03-01 06:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all How old are you. If he falls in love that quick he has self esteem issues or just wants to be tied down.If you Are young don't worry about it you shouldn't be in relationships!
2007-03-01 06:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're 100% in love with a person, then you wouldn't have doubts, fears, mistrust. Maybe you're only 60% in love with him right now. Give it time.
2007-03-01 06:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you can't always go by what somebody else says because he may have his own agenda for saying that. If he loves you then that's all that matters.
2007-03-01 06:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to whoever if you feel he is the one just be with him the wrost that can happen is that yall break up and if that happen that means yall anit meant for each other
2007-03-01 06:01:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋