Hey i am so sad about at 7 year relationship that i just lost! No matter what i tried i cant get her out of my head..what is the best way to start getting this pain out of my chest? any help any one please
2007-03-01 05:56:55 · 17 answers · asked by leomebaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best medicene for aheartache would be time....Broken heart ok first thing it took your time to fine her/him you dont just see someone and love them....love taks time and a lot of hard work so to really love someone you had to have time to showe that person and now your heart is broken so use time to fix....Get to know yourself again and understand yourself a lot more than you give yourself creit for.
2007-03-01 06:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by flyangel1118 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Faith.
Creativity.
Music.
Writing.
Friendships.
Fun.
*Take in your surroundings and use that moment to find the joy in the small things... things you may have taken for granted while you were involved in your long relationship.
*Have faith in God, and know that everything happens for a reason.
*Think fondly at the times you spent with the one you miss, and not negatively at the present in which you feel empty.
*Allow yourself to fully feel the affects of the heartbreak, but don't lose yourself in it. Make sure you let yourself escape to have some fun once in a while.
I know this is a really tough situation, but I've been there and I know that anyone can survive if they really want to.. if they try. Best wishes. You'll be okay. ♥
2007-03-01 06:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica La La Leigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a sparkling b/f possibly, who lives in close proximity to sea shore so as that he can take you for that thandi hawa kaa jhoka, man or woman who writes marvelous poems, who's clever, proficient, clever, now do i ought to take my call after providing you with such quite a few tricks.:p ? On a severe be conscious, I consider Madhavi ( I even have notably taken her call because of fact she has elaborated her answer as to time being the spectacular healer ) and others who've reported time ........ time is the spectacular healer and having great acquaintances (i can introduce to those that're as great as i'm:P). worrying relatives, objective in existence and not too forget a sparkling love, b/f can bypass an prolonged way in assisting you over come that heart harm. and on the line to restoration it extremely is taken under consideration necessary to no longer stay interior the previous, the wear, discomfort, memories of time spent collectively and the subsequent harm up (if it extremely is the reason in the back of heartache) , it particular messes up the restoration technique, no think approximately conserving the wound sparkling, forgive and forget . and that i'm kidding approximately me as your new b/f dont come working or in prepare or in plane or bel gaadi (if bengaluru is that lots backward ) no person is waiting for you with open hands here in mumbai.:p you notice at this 2nd my palms are extremely finished :P
2016-11-26 22:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by boyter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only does time but also think about what went wrong and try not to let that happen again have fun go out get a hobby things to keep you active it helps, meet girls but dont jump into a relationship until your mind is clear. Sorry and take it easy.
2007-03-01 06:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no medicine for a heartache the only thing you can do it to overcome it... I am a female and I know what you are talking about. Just do not punish others because of the harsh reactions of another...
Try to do things that will take your mind off of her...
2007-03-01 06:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by lisababy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It takes time but one day soon you will be able to move on. But if it didn't end so bad and there is another chance see if she fels the same and try again because it sounds like you love her a lot. But theres nothing you can do sorry.
2007-03-01 06:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch movies or go clubing with your friends. Thats how I was cheered up about my 3 1/2 relationship.
2007-03-01 06:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God.
Pray to God and ask for hope and strength to move on.
He has a plan for you and will make everything fine.
Just have faith in Him.
It will be okay. ♥
Finding someone else will just make it worse for you. You can't just force yourself to move on by replacing them with someone else. You're just going to be finding yourself comparing the 2 of them and missing your ex even MORE. That poor girl is also most likely going to be a rebound and be hurt too.
2007-03-01 06:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go to the gym, be with friends and family, watch good movies, enjoy sunny days, find a hobby, go for walks, play music you enjoy, eat well, and wait it out
2007-03-01 06:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by Cybele 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand your feelingz. I know it;s really hard but all i can say is just enjoy the life n keep urself buzy.. maybe that will help you out. take care
2007-03-01 06:03:39 · answer #10 · answered by palak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋