Why is it that the women I have no interest in have the hots for me, and the women that I really fancy don't even seem to know I exist? Is this one of life's cruel tricks?
It is really frustrating.
2007-03-01 05:52:20 · 23 answers · asked by Aries 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You must be ugly and you are aiming too high.
2007-03-01 05:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by freddy the newf 4 · 2⤊ 5⤋
It will change. it is one of life's cruel jokes, but only lasts for a short time. It seems as though we all go through it. I remember a time when this guy probably would have done anything in the world for me, but it just did not click. About a year later, I met up with friends for dinner and met my beau of six years now, there. It's just one of those things. It is very frustrating for sure. But have patience. You will find someone that is just like you, but it takes getting thru the green ones first. lol. Just kidding. You know what I mean and I wish you all the luck. It's tough out there.
2007-03-01 14:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by nannypinata 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem aswell. Life really is a Biatch. You know you like fancy this girl, but when you ask her out she rejects you and makes you her number one enemy and you don't have to be ugly for this to happen to you. By the way this happened to me and i was a normal looking person with a good personality, im still the same from back then although i do different things now because i'm older.
2007-03-01 16:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the club, what you should do is think about how you act, feel and what your thinking when around women u have no interest in and then be that around the ones you fancy. To help that along picture those you fancy doing something universal such as taking a big dump to knock them off the pedestal you have them on.
2007-03-01 14:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by Matthew H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be because you are like most men and only want to date the beauty queens. The beauty queens only want to date the sports stars. If you would pick out a girl by how sweet she is, smart and having things in common with you instead of how big her boobs are, you will find someone compatable. Don't bother with the immature girls who judge you by the same criteria you are now using. Beauty is only skin deep and life can get awfully boring when you are done staring at your date and want a grown up relationship with someone who only can talk about what color their nails will be this week. As you mature, this will probably take care of itself if you are not a shallow air head. Good Luck
2007-03-01 14:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by moonrose777 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sad but true.
women can smell desperation at 200 yards.
u have 2 try 2 b cool & a bit mysterious.
women love a bit of mystery.
try different approaches,
spend some time watching other men around u & c if u get a hint where u're going wrong.
sorry dude,
i'm married
BUT i wish u the best of luck in the future.
:)
2007-03-01 14:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is cruel like that. Don't let it put you off though I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason - the girls that don't reciprocate are leaving you available for the special girl that is out there waiting for you!
2007-03-01 14:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by Poppy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know how to answer that question.
It depends on what you are looking for in a person. Are looks more important than brains? or do you look for the inside before the outside?
Maybe you should list the important things that you are looking for in a person and really think about the people around you. Maybe that right person is right in front of you and you just haven't opened your eyes to see her.
2007-03-01 14:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by Barb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fancy you..lol...how cute is that.lol... well in that case u end up alone.. or lower ur standards.lol.... if the women u like doesnt notice you.... u go up to her and ask her out, you will find out real quick if she likes you or not... then if not.. who needs that.... its not lifes cruel tricks... its saying beauty is only skin deep... you have to judge a person by their personality... u can always change ur looks.. good luck....
2007-03-01 14:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by gina B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey this happens to me! The guys that like me are not even in my ball park! Not that I'm biggin myself but you know what mean! Is it because I don't really give a rats ar*e about how I am around them and am totally relaxed that I attract them? One day it will be someone I like back, it's got to happen law of averages!
2007-03-01 14:09:11 · answer #10 · answered by farleyjackmaster 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not just guys that feel that way. My boyfriend chased me for quite a while before we went out, mostly because he wasn't in that narrow category of "what I was looking for." But once I got to know him, he turned out to be really great -- and I was able to put aside some prejudices that kept me from seeing how terrific he really was.
Are you looking for shallow things like job prestige, model-type looks, etc.? That can really hold you back from finding someone wonderful.
Good luck.
2007-03-01 13:59:29 · answer #11 · answered by Who Knew? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋