I have a guy friend for a long time and a few days ago he ask for a hug, so i gave him a hug then while we are hugging he whisper to me that he want to kiss me, so we kiss...
I love this guy but i don't know if he loves me too... please help!
Thanks
2007-03-01 05:47:54 · 19 answers · asked by spydurwuman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he is into you. Ask him out on a date, like pizza and a movie or something. If he likes you, he won't hesitate. Also, don't jump on the L word too soon. You have to let your relationship grow. Go out and make sure you really know him and you're positive that you love this guy before you say it. Be careful though. If you hook up with a good guy friend and things don't work out, it could turn out ugly. You might lose a great friend.
~Best of luck~
2007-03-01 05:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by Lea22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be straight with him. Ask him how he feels about you and if he has any feelings for anyone else at this time. Guys act tough and they act like everything is straight forward but many times they are confused, shy, nervous, or uncertain. How do I know? I'm a guy. But i'm too old (over 30) to care about being shy anymore or uncertain or care what others think anymore.
So be straight forward with him and make sure he doesn't just want to fool around or be friends with something "extra". Sounds like you really care about this person and if he feels the same then you have something good here.
So be straight up. To the point. Waste time and play games and you could loose him to someone else.
2007-03-01 13:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by TommyNelson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best guy friend is the one that loves you the most and you'll never find anybody that can compare. Go for it as long as you don't have a boyfriend. The best thing you can do is to talk with him I'm sure he feels the same.
2007-03-01 13:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by Soul Survivor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that does not mean he LOVES you. he can be attracted to you if he asked for a kiss. but guys and girls hug all the time, attraction or not. so if it's just a hug, it doesnt mean that he likes u
2007-03-01 13:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by rramkay01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, firstly, I bet you're happy that you love this guy, but remember, slowly and steadily wins the race, not really a race tho is it? lol. anyways, keep talking to him, and try hintin here and there. but don't go into the subject immediately. if he is bang on of what you're tryin 2 ask him, then it's all over, and you'll know that he loves you, that's if he says so. if he duz, wallah! all ure hardwork paid off. that's what i fink u shud do anyways =D
2007-03-03 14:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it did not come natural and he had to ask you then he is not just a friend. sounds like you are both in love with each other. The best relationships start out with friends finding each other.
2007-03-01 13:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well what kind of kiss
well i hug and kiss my best guy friend in front of my boyfriend that doesn't really mean anything is that he propally considers you closer than just a regular friend that all
2007-03-01 13:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUGS and KISSES don't imply love! People hug those they hate everyday! Lust also hugs and kisses. Don't fool yourself! If he loves you then you won't have to guess!
2007-03-01 14:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU WANT TO BE MORE THAN FRIEND THEN YOU NEED TO GO FOR IT AND TELL HIM HOW YOU REALLY FEEL.BUT IF YOU LIKE HIM ASA FRIEND THEN YOU NEED TO LEAVE THAT HUG AND KISSING ALONG. SO IT WANT MESS UP YOUR FRIENDSHIP.BBECAUSE IT WILL SOMETIME CHANGE WHEN YOU GET REAL WITH A FRIEND.
2007-03-01 14:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sounds as though he does like you and is trying to let you know in a easy way
2007-03-01 13:52:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋