Who should I choose?
I am 20 and I like 2 guys. Both are interested in me. The one guy is 18 but mature and we get along great. We always have a great time when we around each other. He is shy but kinda weird like me so we get along well bc of that. but I question the fact that he is 2 years younger and the other guy is 20 so only a couple months older. We also get along great. I like him because hes kinda serious and I'm crazy so we balance each other out. Who should I choose?
2007-03-01 05:31:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
balance is better. so i'd say go with the 20 year-old. cause if you and the 18 year-old are like each other you might get tired of each other. Good lUck.
2007-03-01 05:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by chedderapples 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have an 18 year old guy who is shy and nice and seems very mature for his age but you have a 20 year old who is interested in you and you, too, also like him. Here is the question, whom do you like better? Can you actually think about which person you can see yourself in the next year? Can you see which person you may see yourself getting serious with? What is the 20 year old doing? Does he or the 18 year old have a job? Are they going to college? Both? Can you sit down and have a serious talk with one more then the other? Did your parents, friends, meet these two guys? Did you meet their family members? You have to think about this. If one of the guys actually make you feel love, adored, like a soul mate, sort to say, then I would suggest you go with the person who captures your heart the most.
Only you can choose this for yourself.
2007-03-01 16:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number. My fiance is 13 years older than I am. In a couple years the age thing wont be an issue for you guys anymore. Who can you picture youself being with when you're older? Kinda sounds like you're pulled towards the guy who's goofy like you are. I would choose the person i have more in common with and forget the age thing. Like attracts like..no mater what anyone says. It's a universal law!
Good luck (=
CM
2007-03-01 13:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough call, you like them for different reasons.
you shouldn't rule the 18 year old because he's younger than you, especially if he's mature for his age.
no offence, you're only 20, you're very young yourself and it's only a 2 year age gap ... if he floats your boat then age shouldn't matter. it's not like you're 30 ... or he's 16.
2007-03-01 13:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by brightspark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
experience has taught me that older guys are just made better for long term relationships. but if your looking for a fun little fling, the younger guy is probably your best bet.
2007-03-01 13:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by promotelove_alexandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not the age that matters my frnd its that why your heart tells you. close you eyes and try to keep warm and think of both of them. the first person who brings immense feeling of joy into your heart is the one you will love too
this is wht i did when my boyfrnd proposed me and we are reall happy now cause he is always the best man for me and will ever be. be watchfull dear. its your love,life and your heart and mind do not decied in hast just wait and decied.more over consider your future too as it is very much important .
2007-03-01 13:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by soniya_deepthi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age shouldn't matter you need to be with the one guy that makes you happy and that you get along with and think that you can have a relationship with.
2007-03-01 13:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
which ever one you have the better time with Age does not matter especially 2 years
2007-03-01 13:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to chose either one? Date them both for awhile, and I'll bet that the choice becomes clear.
2007-03-01 13:36:04 · answer #9 · answered by Katt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well id go for 18 year old, have fun dont go for a seirious guy, well....and if you cant decide go for the better looking guy.!
2007-03-01 13:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by natashas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋