My boyfriend recently found some text messages coming from my ex boyfriend saying things like "when are we hooking up?" and "from your one and only". He belives I am cheating on him but I am not. I have no control over the situation. How can I make him understand that it's not my fault that he texts me? I tell himtime and time again to leave me alone and that I have a man and his response is always "i'm not giving up on you." So what is a girl to do? Besides change my number?
2007-03-01 05:31:39 · 8 answers · asked by Mermaid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what is a girl to do?! delete the messages from your ex and don't talk to him anymore! it wasn't that hard was it?!
2007-03-01 05:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by sea_star 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ooh, that's kind of a messy situation. Well, I sure hope your boyfriend trusts you, because it does seem a little shady. I think that the best you can do at this point is to continue to tell him to leave you alone, threaten to change your number and all that, and to delete all of his texts so that your boyfriend doesn't find them. Yeah, the whole keeping them on your phone part of it seems a little weird...
2007-03-01 13:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by filledesarcenciel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could get your man to give him a call to scare him off (well if it is an easy situation like that) or would this ex suggest that you 2 are having an affair.
it might be best for you to change your number. whats worth more to you, your man or your mobile phone number?
hope everything goes well for you
2007-03-01 13:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by Its Me :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 Change your number...
#2 At least delete the ex's messages as soon as you get them!
#3 Tell current boyfriend "NUNYA" and to stay out of your phone!
2007-03-01 13:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by Nasubi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are walking on thin ice. The moment he TEXT you I wld hv blocked his TEXT immediately and told yr boyfriend what happened. Why does the ex think he can "hook up" with u?
BLOCK HIS CALLS!!!!!
Do not have ANY contact with him. Do NOT answer his TEXT, his calls. IGNORE THEM!!!
Be very attentive to your boyfriend and make him feel special.... little gifts, BUY dinner, see movies HE wants to see.
GOOD LUCK, you deserve it!
2007-03-01 13:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by choose happiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean besides changing your number omn if u really care change ur freakin number or maybe u just love the attention why didnt you delete the text when you read them
2007-03-01 13:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him you bill. It should show him you are not sending messages to the ex. He is just sending them to you. Then change your number.
2007-03-01 13:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by His Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well can't you delete the text messages and don't talkto him and make it clear to you ex that you already made your life without him...
2007-03-01 13:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋