wot do i do if me and my bf want to make love but are scared my parents will cache us
2007-03-01 05:30:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you and your b/f? I would be surprised if any of you are over 15.
But anyways, if you two want to “make love” as you said, then it means you want to have a romantic date. I would suggest to try to find a better place than your house or his.
But wherever you go, make sure is private. You don’t want anybody to walk on you two, especially if you two are underage. And MAKE SURE to be prepared with as much protection as possible. Have lots of condoms, use the ones with spermicidal lube (it kills sperms), and make sure you can have access to some other emergency methods like the Morning After Pill. If a condom brakes, your life and his could change in a way that you don’t even want to think about.
Don’t forget also that protection is not only for pregnancy, but also STD. Assuming you are STD free, you must make sure he is too. Even more if you two decide to do oral sex, as I doubt any of you will use protection at that time.
If there is anything I wrote here that you don’t understand or don’t know what it is, STOP AND DO NOT HAVE SEX. It means that you are NOT ready for that at all (assuming this is your first time).
Good luck, be safe, and have fun.
2007-03-01 05:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you're old enough to have sex without being scared. Obviously you aren't either old enough or mature enough to be having sex. Not to mention, even if they don;t catch you, what happens when you:
1. Show up pregnant?
2. Need a ride to the health department for a STD test?
3. Need to see the doctor for birth control?
4. He dumps you and now suddenly you're a ho.?
I'd concentrate more on being able to learn how to spell.
2007-03-01 13:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by knottygaboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How Bout dis go somewhere where yall wont get caught like got to the movies or the mall and leave with him DO NOT DO IT @ HOME unless u r very sure u wont get caught and use protection always no matter how much he say he dont want to use it use it.
2007-03-01 13:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by alcourtneylewis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a 15 year old who does not know her father other than his name is Paul. Without a shadow of doubt you are not ready to make a full commitment to the boy involved. Get your life straight first, pick up at school and make something of yourself instead of an unmarried mother which will haunt you for the rest of your life.................. It is also illegal and could result in the arrest and imprisonment of the boy involved...........
2007-03-01 13:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a hotel like adults.
Oh, you're not adults? Then I guess you shouldn't be doing that.
And anyone that can't spell shouldn't be risking activity that might result in breeeding.
2007-03-01 13:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cache is a clothing store
catch u mean?
somewhere other than the house then
2007-03-01 13:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by Bailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go somewhere you know they wont "catch" you, like a hotel. But be smart and use protection kids!
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2007-03-01 13:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are that afraid you should talk to your parents. If it's seems that you will lose their trust and respect then I wouldn't do it.But if they let you do your own thing then go for it.
2007-03-01 13:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're even ready? Are you being smart? I hope you're considering the other consenquences besides getting caught.
2007-03-01 13:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by jaypea40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to go get a hotel or something but do it somewhere your parents wont catch ya.
2007-03-01 13:34:09 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋