I guess i am a slow healer, but healing love was never easy
and i was not friends with him before the relationship, however - I am not sure what is best for me, considering my feelings
I know he means alot to me, and i do wish to be apart of his life, however if i get back on the same 'friends' track, I for sure will ruin all my effort of getting over, and I am not sure i can be a friend - cause i wont be okay seeing the one I love with some other girl
Gosh - help plz
post ur opinions n advice plz
2007-03-01 04:40:41 · 4 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If its friendship he wants and you want more,it may be best to move on.You could get hurt again especially if he is with someone else it would be to painful for you it may be best for your emotional well being just to forget him,find someone else.Through time has you distance yourself from him you will start to feel better.there is someone out there for you who will return your love,and you deserve it.
2007-03-01 04:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by canteloupesweet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Slow Healer - Let yourself heal by being friends
You never know how short presence may have left of him.
2. Not Friends Earlier - Be Friends Now
3. Getting Over - You are already over, believe that
4. Cant See Him With Another Girl - He has no interest in Girls, Love and Relationships. He Hates them because they gave only pain.
5. Just be Friends because that is the only relationship without feelings and emotional responsibility.
Friends = True People without Feelings and Emotional Responsibility n attachment.
2007-03-01 12:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by Goldman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was once exactly where u are right now.. but it turned out great for me. I know you care a lot for him still. If he is your true love... you will NEVER get over him completely. Maybe he wants a chanch to start over but he is afraid to scare you off by saying hed like to try again. By asking you to be friends is a great start and kinda a cushion for him as well ... It DOES HURT to see someone you really still love with someone else... there is something that he is missing from the others girls hes seen since ben with you... whatever it is,.... they dont have that spark of what you had when you were with him and he really misses that. Its a guys way of testing the waters and making sure that you are what he wants
2007-03-01 13:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by misspookett 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should explain to him you aren't ready to be friends yet. That you still have strong feelings for him and that possibly seeing him with other girls would be too hard on you. Tell him what you wrote here.
2007-03-01 12:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by brandyswilkes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋