I would like to know what it is women want when it comes to men ? are you more intrested in friends and go from there and what makes the differance between just wanting to be friends and wanting more ?
2007-03-01 04:38:47 · 15 answers · asked by fulhamish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats a really good question. Better than most on here. Well, most women are looking for someone that they can be them selves around. Women like a great sense of humor in a man 1, its very attractive. 2....it makes them comfortable to be with you... and not all women are the same. Some are really needy and need reassurance so they feel loved al the time. Others know when they are loved and dont need to be clingy all over ya every second of the day. Some women are devious and can be players and just interested because you have something valuable that will make them look better... something to flaunt off in front of their friends. um, I was interested with just being friends when I 1st met my hubby. Those are the best relationships to build from... friendship... later in the friendship if there are qualities that she is attracted to you by that she didnt know that you had before...(because it takes a while to really get to know a person) she will want to deepen the relationship by taking it to the next level. When girls just want to be "FRIENDS" that means there is no way possible that this person is attracted to you in that way at the PRESENT TIME" and or you might have ways that are not to par with her standards. I was best friend with my husband for 4 years before we got engaged. the we were engaged for 2 yrs then we got married and we are still very close best friends. women want to be friends when they have another Potential relationship in the works. maybe they are attracted to someone else... this is where we wanna be friends untill we can figure everything out.
2007-03-01 04:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by misspookett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I'm not speaking for every woman here. But I do know that the little things are what most ladies want. This means a walk with you and us picking flowers or something we can keep. Also a bath with rose petals and candels. If you are friends wanting more why not do a candle lite dinner and tell her how you feel. We want to know we are wanted to be kissed for no reason and to laugh just because. And if she likes you as a friend she will make it clear. There is really a fine line between us wanting a man and just looking at him as a friend. But you also have to be bestfriends in order to have a strong relationship this boils down to the little things get her daiseys just because. Or a single flower is simple and write on a petals "Just thinking of you" So don't be affraid to jump out there. What's the worst that could happen she tells you that she wants to be friends? More people should just go out on a limb just because. Live life day by day moment for moment.
2007-03-01 04:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Toni V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is very difficult to answer, because not all women think alike. Every woman have different intentions. You need to just be urself and the right person will come along. Trust me...this is the truth.
When u make changes to get a woman...eventually you will revert back to who you were and she'll realise that this is not the guy she first met. And things may not turn out the way you expect it to. "BE YOU..AND GO FOR IT"
2007-03-01 04:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women say they want to start as friends because that is safe. We have a lot more to loose in going for fast sex and that is taught to us from a very early age. But when a relationship is hot, a girl will just go for more than friends. As with men, chemistry is very important.
2007-03-01 04:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chemestry is the difference from wanting to be friends to wanting more. What I like in a men is the capability to be able to make me laugh.
2007-03-01 04:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by rqerita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every girl is different... but personally for me:
I have more guy friends than girl friends because i am very girly and VERY outgoing... i loooove to hang out with the guys because they are just like me, i can get piss drunk and then eat like a pig and party and dance with them alllll night long knowing none of them will try anything with me, and they will be there to watch over me!
but at the same time, i do not currently have a boyfriend... and i know if i did get one, they would be totally jealous and hate him and complain that he has "changed" me! because i can do anythign i want right now!! so personally i like just haveing friends that are guys... but there are a couple of them that if they wanted to date or something, i would give it a try!!!
2007-03-01 04:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by Saritah Bonita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like me want a good relationship that will last long and would want you to start out just as friends.
2007-03-01 04:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because human beings tend to be followers.Society pressures women human beings to be skinny ect.. yet optimistically its gonna substitute with plus length modelling and curvy singers like katy perry ect.. you'll locate a guy it really is positive sufficient and could no longer care about what his acquaintances imagine.you want a guy that has his own personality and not at all an immature boy
2016-12-05 02:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by lesure 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls want the same. Often is just curiosity, even they don't know what they want in the start. So maybe its a bit about your attitude what will develop.
2007-03-01 04:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel like if there is a spark then go for it, it's always nice to get to know somone before you jump into anything...i just like a guy who can make me laugh...thats all you have to do and im in...i want to be treated right and not have to take care of my man....responsiblity and love thats what women want.
2007-03-01 04:42:36 · answer #10 · answered by CRAZY 8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋