This guy I work with approached one of my co-workers asking about me and if I had a boyfriend and to see what I thought of him. I have not talked to him except when saying hi once or twice. I dont get it thought because he is very cute and everyone has told me he is a great guy and I am not pretty. I cant help but think this is a huge joke.
2007-03-01 04:35:11 · 27 answers · asked by katie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey now dnt be so pessemestic & have such low self esteem! dnt think this is all a joke because a really cute guy seems to have interest in you because maybe he really does? be more optimistic and believe in urself girlfriend! (: and besides maybe its not based on looks? rmb "Beauty attracts attention, but personality captures the heart" Goodluck! <3
2007-03-01 04:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by jEsSnIcKeR`S ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A great personality makes up for the lack of being pretty. Did you know that psychologically men are attracted more to a smile than cold beauty? A cheerful personality will attract a guy more than a sad pretty face. Smiles work best, and who the heck told you that you are not pretty? Unless you had a huge malformation due to some accident and whatnot, you can't decide that you're not pretty. I have never seen an ugly woman, just ugly personalities. And that, my friend is the truth. Beauty is skin deep, if you don't have anything to go on with that you're lost.
2007-03-01 04:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh?
Listen up. Beauty comes from within. The sexiest thing a woman can wear is a smile. Attitude is everything.
I've run into women who were physically attractive but once they opened their mouths you realized how stupid, shallow and self centered they were.
Made them unappealing.
A Plain Jane with a smile and good attitude is a 12 in my book.
Maybe he's tired of all the chicks who think he's cute. Maybe he's looking for someone who is honest and real.
Only immature and vicious boys would play this kind of joke on you.
Good luck.
A~
2007-03-01 04:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you make any move, you need to have a lil more self confidence and improve ur self esteem.
Secondly, make sure that the co-worker is not punking u...some people like to play with people's hearts...and fool them
Thirdly, when u confirm that..you need to approach the guy personally and inform him of the way you feel about him, providing that u do like him, then u evaluate his intensions and "GO FOR IT"
2007-03-01 04:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a self confidence boost. So your not the prettiest. Maybe he's interested in your other many qualities. Are there things you can do to see. Like have you noticed if he is a coffee or cappuchino man? Maybe you could grab two cappuchinos tomorrow before work and offer him one. Maybe start up a conversation with him sometime. Or tell the coworker that you would love to hang out with him sometime. I mean theres endless things you could do. If it turns out to be a joke then who cares least you went out with the hot guy!! Good luck.
2007-03-01 04:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by a_dollier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give yourself more credit he sees something he likes maybe you have a great personality and are a good person what makes you think that all we men want is super models we are more than that at least some of us if you don't have anybody get to know this guy he might be the one for you and you are probable prettier than you think
2007-03-01 04:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by delmonticoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's only one way to figure out if it is a joke or not... confront him about it. Catch him when he's alone, and ask him why he was asking about you. Don't be agressive or defensive, but just tell him that if he wants to know more about you, then he can find out over dinner one night, or after work somewhere.
give yourself more credit too. There's more to life than looks, and maybe this is one of the guys that actually sees that.
2007-03-01 04:40:16 · answer #7 · answered by ski4ever1977 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of you need to look at yourself and see that you are beautiful.... you cant just put yourself down like that....He see's what you cant see... you ask what if its a joke.. well what if its not? will you just be so insecure that you cant see what is infront of you? Im guessing people have put you down in your past.. but you should let that go because people put other people down when you have something they want..... let go of the past beause the past never sees the future. .. believe you are beautiful know that you were made to perfection no matter what that hurt person inside of you is saying
2007-03-01 04:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by U_dont_know_me_Until_U_know_Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure he is certain he is interested in you. Not everyone is out for sex kittens. I bet you are more beautifuk than you think you are... on the inside and out. A guy will not waste his time making an effort in a girl just to be turned down.. think he really likes you go talk to him just say hi... ask him to lunch.... just approach him as a cool down to earth friend. BE YOURSELF though...
2007-03-01 04:42:18 · answer #9 · answered by misspookett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear you criticizing your physical self, but is that all there is to you? Maybe he's not asking for himself? You need to stop telling yourself that you are not pretty. I did that for a long time and realized how it hurt the way I projected to others. Look in the mirror every day and tell yourself that you are wonderful and how beautiful you are. Because you are...
2007-03-01 04:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋