how can a "full-figured "12 year- old find a boyfriend who will care about her,( and not in the perv way?

Answer 1

A 12 year old doesn't need a boyfriend. Focus your attention on school, and doing things you enjoy. Take up some type of physical activity (softball, basketball, volleyball) and lose some weight, so when you're old enough to ~really~ be interested in boys, you won't have to worry about how to find a boyfriend...he'll find you.

Answer 2

If not in the perv way, why stress that you are full figured? Hmmm.

Now, why would you want someone at 12 years old. Enjoy your youth, have fun, don't settle down, and don't date until you have exhausted every other part of being 12. Then go on to 13, and do the same. You have a life time to have a boyfriend, who will definately exploit your full figure, so wait awhile. And learn to emphasize how nice you are, how caring, etc. rather than today's "Paris Hilton/B. Spears" movement that the body is all that you have to offer. Watch them, and you will see that even money doesn't bring happiness. Work on things that make a relationship great within yourself, and then you will have many people caring for and about you. Good luck. Now, go play, but not with boys.

Answer 3

Twelve is still a little young to by thinking about boyfriends, especially if she has a mature figure and boys will be treating her like she is older than she is.
She should wait until she is at least 14 before dating, and her mother/sister/friend should give her a thorough talk about what boys want from a girl with a mature figure, and prepare her to make her own decisions and how to say no.

Answer 4

At 12 years old you don't need a boy friend other than a boy who is your friend much like any other friend you have. If you want a deeper relationship you are moving way too fast. Slow down, enjoy your youth. Save the serious relationships for late high school or college.

Answer 5

umm sorry sweetie but a 12 year old shouldn't have a boyfriend...you are still young...enjoy it. don't rush into anything...i mean come you is only 12! i don't think i was even thinking bout guys in that kinda way...save relationships for high school, and college. You have plenty of time to find a guy...save the relationship stuff and jus be friends wit guys till high school. it will be worth it. cuz guys that young are still really immature...it's not fun. jus have fun...hang out wit your girls and b a kid....don't grow up to fast....you'll regret it later on.

Answer 6

See honey, you cannot asks for everything at the same time.
If you want someone who will care for you, than look for it in your class, tuitions or among friends. Besides that, the other people will just try to take advantage of you. These are some people who really knows you, so they will care for you and knows whats important for you and so they will never force you. And its completely fine to be in such a harmless relationship till u r big enough to understands what is right and wrong and can take care of yorself. Than you can brighten your horizon.

Answer 7

Well, you have matured in your body but not in your mind. At least not enough. You are too young to be dating. You have 4 more years, of concentrating on your studies, and by then, you won't have to look far. They will come crawling out of the wood-work. Don't rush adult-hood. Enjoy your uncomplicated youth for a little while longer.

Answer 8

You do not want a boy friend at 12 years old!!!!!! you need to do the best you can in school so that when you get out of school you can get the best job that you want to do. Then go ahead a pick any guy you want. Got it?

Answer 9

find a boy how has the same interest as you and feel that you and him have a great connection. but make sure he is around your age like 13 or less. Make him feel that you really like him by send him notes and hits. Make sure he knows that are from you and remember boys around that age are shy so you have to be the one how make the first move. good luck! and hope you find what you looking for.

Answer 10

I think you maybe just need to concentrate on having good friends. Who will be there for you always. Don't be in such a hurry to have a relationship their not always as fun as you think they are. You'll find someone one of these days. But it's not gonna happen as quickly as you want it to. It'll happen when you least expect it. You never know, one of you male friends might even turn into your boyfriend one day. You never know...