I dont really know if my girlfriend wanted space forever, said she needs time to think about the relationship feels it might me emotionally unhealthy. I have given her 2 weeks. I email her just to see how she doing, we start emailing back and forth, she says she wants to continue communicating, but right now just email. now we email several times a day, seems to be waiting to hear from me. I asked her if she would meet for coffee and she agreed. I really want to ask if she has moved on and emailing for friendship, or knows if she wants to try the relationship again slowly, we meet tomorrow , she did ask whats my meaning for meeting
2007-03-01 04:22:39 · 23 answers · asked by S D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you sound desparate..she should be asking you to go out since she is the one with the space issues. cancel the coffee and let her get in touch with you..as for emails..dont reply too quickly..wait a few days..etc..do not seem needy or desparete
2007-03-01 04:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that she has been thinking about moving on and maybe even found someone she is interested in but wants to keep a hold on you just in case she realizes she has made a mistake... If I were you I would do the same she obviously doesn't care enough to give you the right respect and she wants her cake & eat it too... She is playing games with you man... She is controling you right now keeping you at a distance but when she feels that you are slipping away she sends some sappy email about how she misses you or how she was thinking about you... get over her man she is bad news and you will just get your heart broken time and time again
2007-03-01 12:31:53 · answer #2 · answered by B-E-B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wasn't contacting you and you left her alone for 2 weeks she was probably out seeing what she could get. It seems when people take a break it never works out. You have every right to ask her if she moved on and is emailing you for friendship. If you can't do whatever she wants you to do/be then be up front and let her know she lost out on you.
2007-03-01 12:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by Janielle M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her ow you feel, if you are confused like that. I was in the same situation, and the guy was acting like he was completely not wanting me around (as a friend) So i stopped hanging out with him completely. This happened about a month ago and we still ook at each other weird when we see the other. It's completely awkward. And How i feel is only getting worse. Don't do that to your self. See what's going on, cause if you don't, things probabely aren't going to gwet much better, for how much you know.
2007-03-01 12:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ask. Ask many questions. You have a right to know before you go crazy. I think its weird that the only communication that your girlfriend wants is email. But then again I dont know your age or how long you been dating. I know that if it was me he wouldnt be my boyfriend very much longer. Good luck! :)
2007-03-01 12:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by a_dollier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should go ahead and ask her cause obviously if she said yes to go out 4 coffee she wants 2 see you 2. don't give up im had the same situation and it worked out perfectly. ive never been happier.
2007-03-01 12:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by emioly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all this is about having time to think. Did you do anything wrong? Maybe she is refelecting. If she looks forward to your e-mails than maybe she still wants to be with you but is apprehensive. You have to give her a chance, if you want a chance from her. See what happens, but don't rush things.
2007-03-01 12:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by godblessamerica_911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful - Needing space usually means time to find someone else while keeping you as plan "B"
2007-03-01 12:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by want_to_explore_life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be honest with her, tell her you need to know where you stand in her life, that you respect her decisions and her space. and her feelings but you also have every right to know if you have a relationship, and if its going any where. because your feeling also matter.
2007-03-01 12:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by clubchaos1965 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask her what she'd like to do.
If you love her, tell her so, but don't put your life on hold waiting until she's ready because you may be waiting forever.
2007-03-01 12:26:56 · answer #10 · answered by Twiztnin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋