We were close the last 3 yrs, worked together- attracted to each other & never expressed. Recently I joined a new company & realized, I love her as I miss her very much. Called her often & met a few times– outside, not in office as guys teased her about me. Then she avoids me. No return on– calls/mails. We were in touch but frequency reduced. She even lied a few times. I stopped calling her- me hurt. But she calls after 2 days just to check - I made it clear that I miss her a lot & I did a mistake leaving the company as the price I paid was Her. I didn’t propose to her though. Again she avoids. I stopped all comm. - she calls me back or sends some forwards. When I ask on her feelings towards me she avoids the topic. A few times when we met, she is very angry at the end of the meeting for no reason atall as if she was expecting something from me. Do not know how to proceed. No need of answers as to – right/ wrong, as I’ve gone beyond that. Just want to know what she wants. What do I do?
2007-03-01 04:21:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me if she is confused. I think she is trying to stay away from you for the obvious reasons but she misses you too. She is probably angry at herself for meeting you. It sounds like she isn't ready to become involved at this time. I would concentrate on your situation. Try to improve things with your wife. If that isn't possible and you decide to leave, then just concentrate on straightening your life out. If the other lady is interested in you, she will seek you out.
2007-03-01 04:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by iceemama 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
And you ask why women say there are no good men? How the HELL can you be married and in love with a married woman. What kind of fuckin' man are you? That is the most fuked up sh!t I ever heard of. It would be different if you were just together. Its deeper than just a commitment between two people. Marriage is a covenant with God. now you messing with the Lord. And not only are you married, she is carrying your child. Thats some real bullsh!t. Why would you do your wife like that? You and the other woman need your *** kicked. Your wife need to get her girls and go jump that *****. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-03-01 04:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by vandykeprincess06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this will put many in trouble ur wife, ur kids, ur inlaws, ur parents, her husband, her inlaws, her parents. and i wud say this is not true love it just comes out because of infactuation also u start admiring a person beeing with her for more hrs than u r with ur wife. and also instead of giving this a relation which is gonna be a trouble and heart ache for all why dont u give a friendship relation. and take the thought of beeing with her. its like smoking and when u r used to it its difficult for u to leave it. be honest and truthful to ur wife. just feel it if it was other way round and ur wife has this kind of feeling for another guy. u cant take it right. very difficult to digest. i know its hard but just keep friendship and maintian a distance from the girl. this way its only u who will have a lil pain for few days and see how happy all r around u. soemthign very small u can give to peple who trust u.
2007-03-01 04:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by slv 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STOP!
Really, just knock it off. Get over it. Think of something else.
Do yourself and everyone else involved (a lot of people) a big favor and just stop thinking of her in that way.
Remember the things you loved about your wife and get some counseling to figure out why you are looking elsewhere.
If not for your wife than for your kid.
I don't even think the woman is that into you, so it should be easy for you to back out of this now before you do something hurtful and regretable.
2007-03-01 04:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by storm_in_teacup 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not destroy peaceful marital lives of 2+2. Keep away from her. Neither contact nor reply her. A female’s physical sexual relations with persons/s of her choice (with their consent) is not an offence or prohibited / barred in any Indian law and she is at liberty to enjoy SEX freely and fearlessly. A male’s physical sexual relations with any 16+ female (with her consent) is no offence or barred / prohibited in any Indian Law, unless she is in the wedlock of somebody else and is done knowing her wedlock and without her husband’s consent or connivance. Prostitution (commercial sex trade, offering sex for monetary gain) alone is an offence punishable in Indian laws.
All unwed sexual activities (pre/post/extra marital), homosexual acts, & other perverted sexual acts are specifically forbidden in Islam in clearly written unambiguous words. In Islam, unwed voluntary sexual intercourse also is a great sin punishable continuously in hell & heinous crime against government/society punishable with publicly lashing/ death by pelting stones.
2007-03-01 06:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the feeling is mutual ,I say go for it. If you are unhappy leave. My mother told me before I got married "If you see things don't work out and your life is miserable, leave don't wait 20 years until your life is over." Don't sacrifice your whole life.. Just make sure you take care of ur children all their lives.
2007-03-01 16:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by Nastia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't west time. Concentrate work in new company, search new environment and avenue.Don't allow any train to stand permanently on your platform ( Heart).
2007-03-01 04:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by sagarika m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about your wife?what about her husband?you never said something about that.are you still in love with your wife?are you ready to leave her?is she ready to leave him?these are all questions they need to be answered before you do anything.are you willing to give up your marrige ?what about your kids?you have to do a lot of thinking.
2007-03-01 04:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by melanie n 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think about your kids and her kids.....broken households are not the ideal family to grow up in. Break it off
2007-03-01 04:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her husband will break your leg. Escape before that.
2007-03-01 04:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by Expression 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋