i live in nashville, i met her in puerto rico while i was playing basketball 1 year ago, and she left her job and moved back to tennessee for me while i was at work she found a txt message to another girl that said "i miss u" and another that said "why wont u kiss me" but it was just a joke to the girl and i wasnt serious and she didnt believe me, and thought i was cheating and bought a ticket and went to her sisters house in Orlando. We have been together for a year, this is the FIRST fight we have ever had..She said she was never coming back and could never trust me again. She left some things in my house, but said that she wanted me to "mail" them to her. this is the second time she found a message like this, I have never cheated on her...im am just a flirt. I am lost without her, how do i get her back? I now know i was wrong and am finished with flirting. I am thinking about giving her about 10 days and driving there and saying im sorry. Is that a good idea? what should i do?
2007-03-01 04:18:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You screwed up. If you are a flirt you shouldn't be in a relationship. Be a man and take it like a man. There are other woman and if you find one you really want to be in a relationship with maybe you will use this as a learning experience and not flirt.
2007-03-01 04:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by CM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You messed up. You need to go to her and talk face to face. Let her know you are done and stop the flirting with anyone. She made a big move for you and now is hurt and afraid that you are cheating. It's understandable after seeing text messages like that. If you saw those on her phone, how would you feel if she was telling you the same thing? You probably wouldn't like it too much either. Go to her and talk and don't do it again. After a year together, I'm sure she cares about you enough to give you another chance. She needs some reassuance from you and maybe some flowers and sincerity in the apology. Good luck!
2007-03-01 04:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Driving over there to go talk to her in 10 days is good you might be waiting a bit too long though because sometimes it is not good to let things cool off you need to get them in the heat of the moment do not let her get over you.
One thing though tell her that you are going to go see her don’t ask her tell her, when you are there you should be collected calm and honest to her do not seem to desperate but let her know that you want her… in other words don’t tell her that you cant live without her just tell her you don’t want to live without her catch my drift?
I am sure this could work out if you put your all into it, and quit the flirting if that is all you did then tell your GF
2007-03-01 04:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by Just ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um to me it sounds like she was looking for an excuse to leave. If she really loves you she would have stuck it out and try to work it out. Don't get me wrong, she had every right to be upset. But she still should have stuck around and try to work it out. If I were you I would wait it out. Leave her there and see what she does. If she comes back then you know she loves you.
2007-03-01 04:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've asked 8 times now. accept the fact you messed up. your behavior was not acceptable to her and you have to deal with it... if this woman was so important to you, why did you risk losing her ?? what was her reaction the first time? yet you did it a second ! sheesh. you f'd up. and she's gone. she made herself clear and you become stalkerish now if you do this
2007-03-01 04:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by ann s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a good idea .. sounds like you need to talk
2007-03-01 04:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its ur fault dat she left you because u should have never done dat but den again i dont knoe
2007-03-01 04:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit playing with fire, son.
2007-03-01 04:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have left you too...........
2007-03-01 04:23:58 · answer #9 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋