This above question refers to the way i feel about my GF, i am madly in love but am insecure and paroniode. I have trust issues and she has done nothing wrong. What can i do and how can i save things from getting worse and lossing the love of my life?
We have been together for only 1 yr and lived together for 5 months but we just keep arguing because of me!!!
2007-03-01 04:07:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take a chill pill and do something for me! Instead of getting a vice grip on her, which will scare her away anyway, work on attracting her!! Take her on romantic outings and to romantic places. Make romantic gestures! Call her in the middle of the day to say I was thinking of you! Send her a dozen red roses just "because you felt like it!" Be spontaneous and show her you care!
Forget about holding onto her. Let her be herself and make her lovesick for you!
2007-03-01 04:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is think before you speak. It sounds like you have some low self esteem. So before you fly off the handle or start arguing with her, think about it, decide if it really is an issue, if not then just don't say anything. While you are doing that you should start working on yourself.. get some books on self esteem, do things to make you feel good about you and remember, that the most beautiful woman in the world picked you (and you picked her). Don't waste time being afraid you are going to lose her or it will become a self fulfilling prophecy. Good Luck!
2007-03-01 04:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so basically, she's such a great catch that you feel like someone's gonna try steal her away from you. you know it's not her fault and that you can trust her; it's other men you don't trust.
TELL HER THAT
2007-03-01 04:14:51 · answer #3 · answered by smethansmee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHILL OUT THEN DUDE!
realize your actions will push/run her off if you continue
relax and enjoy if she is a good girl and with you, dont worry!
2007-03-01 04:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by looking_4_peanuts 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋