How come it seems i always get the bad end of the stick?
It seems that everytime i do something good for someone i still get the bad end, what do i do?
2007-03-01 04:04:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep doing it...dont giv up....ppl will like you more and help you when you need it
2007-03-01 04:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Improve your outlook. It "seems" like you always get the worst of things because your perception is negatively focused. Try looking at the situation from another angle, and looking for the positive (or at least a detached, Zen-like acceptance). Focus on what you did right (doing a kind favor for another) instead of what they did wrong (neglecting to thank you, taking advantage of you).
2007-03-01 04:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are finding all about love and wanted your heart boom booom.. correct... then really, you can't always do something good for someone allthe time and not get a return... You have to see If this person do something good for you then you do for them in return....I have learn so much if someone done something good for me and I would do something for them... If i just do for them and I am waiting for them to do the same thing for me.. not going to work...
Try it and you will see wow, that even better.. That how I found my wife and she is the best and we sure do alot for eachother and our 2 kids too smiling... I do hope you find someone in love smiling.
2007-03-01 04:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes it sens that way but at the end you should be happy that you did the best of regardless of what ever happened
2007-03-01 04:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by roxxyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from someone who can relate to your question, just keep doing good things, and it will come back to you. I promise it will.
Just keep a good attitude!
2007-03-01 04:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by anna s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't get involve in any ones business. mind ur own business and hopefully u won't get the bad end.
2007-03-01 05:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha! I had the same problem.....do nothing for them!! Start being selfish- lie, cheat, and steal. Nothing in life is free and the good die young.!
2007-03-01 04:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by heather555marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to you.....a lot. Just hang in there, don't lose your faith in others, but also remember that sometimes, you have to think of yourself before anyone else........b/c if you don't think about yourself, who will? Good Luck.
2007-03-01 04:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by Elsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your things without expecting any thing.
Expectations reduce the joy !
2007-03-01 04:10:57 · answer #9 · answered by sureshcm m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start living for yourself. Don't be a jerk about it, but if you don't act like you deserve good things in life, they won't happen for you!!
2007-03-01 04:09:45 · answer #10 · answered by torqueymonster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on doing nice stuff for people. Yes, I know...but GOD is watching...and he will reward you for it one day. Really
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2007-03-01 04:09:31 · answer #11 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋