i been with mi girl for 4 months now and my ex just told right now this bad to be with somebody if u know that person is not going to be the one or u just "chillin". my girfriend is a super nice person and i don't want to hurt her. my ex tells me that im wasting her time.
2007-03-01 04:01:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man,, dont ever,,ever listen to your ex.... period.
2007-03-01 04:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by jkp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is right. You're wasting the new girls time. She may have expectations of a future with you. If you want to chill and not have a future with the girl at least tell her so that she won't be waiting around for you to commit to her and it allows her to have a choice as to whether she wants to be with someone like that or find someone else who shares the same goals as her.
2007-03-01 04:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is wrong. YOu are using her. This is the way I see it. IF you can't see yourself with that person in the future cut'em loose. don't feel people minds was mess. How will you ever get the right person if you're in a realationship. Go ahead and say your goodbyes. That is the best for the both of you.
2007-03-01 04:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by Krista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are wasting her time. If she is with you, she probably is thinking there is some type of future. Tell her and let her go. It's not fair to her. I don't know the ages we are dealing with but if she wants a family etc, women only get so much time for that. Men get forever.....Let her know! Don't drag it out....it'll be even worse for her later.
2007-03-01 04:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are wasting her time. Your girl friend will be hurt if you leave her but she will be even more hurt if you waste her time and lead her on. Explain it to her like this: You love her enough not to hurt her. You have realized that your feelings for her are not the same and you would rather not lead her on. Tell her By being with her you will be leading her on, and she deserves better. So instead of being mad with you ask her to forgive you and RESPECT you for not playing with her & leading her on, yes if she loves you she will be hurt but not devasted. I personally would have respect for someone to be honest with me and tell me they dont want to waste my time than just play with my head and lead me on knowing he doesnt want to be with me. Be honest you will be doing the right thing... By telling her the truth you show you are keepin her feelings into consideration and you do care thats why you are tellin her about breaking up because she deserves someone who really loves her not someone there to waste her time so she can move on to find the one thats right for her
2007-03-01 04:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by Im da Example 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a guy who knows what he wants,but afraid to get the things he wants.Just be honest with your girlfrnd and tell her how you really feel about her.Yes she'll be hurt,but she'll also respect you for not wasting her time.And remember in order to get the things that makes you happy,you have to be honest and bold.Because FEAR will only destroy you.All the best in life my brother!!!
2007-03-01 04:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by Macdonald D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell he that you think that the relationship is not going the way she might think its going but be cool about her and let her down easy she might just feel tha same way.
2007-03-01 04:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by Kiara H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel im in the same situation...but u care about ur new gf maybe ur feelings will change in time ,people dont start dating people just because they know they are the "one" they get together to discover if they are the one for them good luck!
2007-03-01 04:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by txgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did that once, t the guys was really into me i mean he was in love until now, but i knew he was not the one so i broke up with him. now he wants me back, but i don't because i am in a relationship with someone i think that might be the one. life sucks
2007-03-01 04:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess if you dont mind waisting yourtime.if your not lookin for that some one special and your just passin time then i guess its alright but dont lead the other person on, you should let them know your not lookin for something real right now. good luck!
2007-03-01 04:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres a reason y ur ex is your ex....shes your "EX" so dont listen to her.....stay with your girlfriend if shes a good girlfriend and you never kno....maybe eventualy that feeling will come around
2007-03-01 04:05:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋