I dated this girl for 7 months broke off a month then on a month then off two months...I care about her but i keep going back to her cuz she really loves me and she thinks it will work but i know in my heart there are too many difference that keep us apart and i don't think it will work for the future but i do go bk why do I let her suck me in and then i care for her again but then in my heart i know it wont last...help!
2007-03-01 03:57:47 · 14 answers · asked by sporty_kitten 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NONE! The reason an ex is an ex is because it didn't work in the first place!
2007-03-01 04:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by a kinder, gentler me 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have a Jerry Springer story for you (HA!) I had an affair with a married man for 12 years before we married. (Started when I was 16) We have since divorced. The clincher is that I married and divorced him 2 more times before I realized that it wouldn't work. 27 years total! If differences are causing problems now, they always will. Some things can change I agree but that almost never applies to people. Maybe a little compromise will come into play but for the most part, once a spade, always a spade.
2007-03-01 12:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know in your heart that it won't work then there's no point in taking her back again. Its hard to let go of someone you care about, but sometimes its for the best. Stop torturing yourself and her by getting back together and then breaking up. I usually don't give an ex another change, but on those rare occasions I would give an ex one more change. Anything other than that is a waste to me.
2007-03-01 12:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I took my ex back to many times to count and the sad part is I knew that it would not work the first time . I was afraid to be alone and dealt with his crap .
How much pain can the heart withstand when it comes to love or is it really love at all?
Take care
C
2007-03-01 12:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by Constance M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I broke up with my boyfriend like 2-3 times before I realized how much I loved him and wanted to be with him...This time I will not let him go and try everything possible to make it work...
2007-03-01 12:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, once it got to the break up point, it was over. I wouldn't want someone to make that decision lightly. And if they are coming back and saying they made a mistake, I would be extremely careful. I can say I never took anybody back. I didn't want to deal with someone who didn't know what they wanted.
Dump her and move on.
Good luck.
A~
2007-03-01 12:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About 20 and each time the break up cost me more and more both financially and physically. Not to mention Emotionally. Sugar...don't do it...find a new girl, let her continue to be an EX....... Good luck, I wish you love!
2007-03-01 12:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by sunset 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that is enough. The relationship isn't growing if you're steadily breaking up. Maybe yall should just go your seperate ways. Sometimes you can love someone but not be with that person. Believe me I know. So let her go.
2007-03-01 12:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by Krista 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude its ether now or never when it comes to this stuff....ether just be friends or stay togather....no back and forth stuff...me and my girl broke off 3 or 4 times but then we decided it will work and now we are togather
2007-03-01 12:02:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What help? You answeed you own question,pal. Break it off. Leave it off. Find a new one.
2007-03-01 12:02:36 · answer #10 · answered by mikey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋