Well my best friend cassie is going out with this boy who is extremely mean to girls.......So when they had ben going out for about two weeks he decided to start hanging out with her and her group of friends, wich i am in .....welll he started to be really mean ......In the past week He has Kicked me in the stomach, thrown me in a trash can,held me in a head lock so i couldnt breath,and filled my mouth with dirt and he dose it all just to be mean but because he is going out with my best friend i have ben protecting him......because when he kicked me in the stomach i had to go to the doctors because he bruised my rib and it was really hard to breath and when my mom asked me who did it i said i didnt know.....but lately its ben getting worse and so i havnt ben hanging out with my best friend but i have ben incredibly lonely.............
2007-03-01 03:54:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am in 8th grade so yah.......
2007-03-01 06:38:38 · update #1
It's time for you to find a new circle of friends sugar,,,,, If this so called friend is allowing this to happen to you or doesn't separate herself from this jerk because of what he's doing to you then it's past time for you to start thinking about just how much of a friend this supposed friend of yours really is ,,,, Put yourself in her position ,,,, If you were her and you saw this guy doing this to one of your friends ,,,,, What would you do ,,,,, Your answer should be a good indication of what you should do in this situation ,,,, Like I said if she's allowing this to happen to you then you definitely need to find other friends ,,,, And this jerk that has assaulted you should be turned in to the police ,,,, At least tell your parents about him and let them handle it ,,,, Drop this supposed friend like a hot rock ,,,,, She's not your friend anymore hun,,,, Good post ,,,, It rates a star from me ,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,
2007-03-01 06:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your problem, how can you take this? Wake up buddy.
I wouldnt be worried about the lonely part. Go tell on him. Dont protect him. His hurting you and he dosent deserve your friend.
PUT A STOP TO ALL OF THIS!!!
ARE YOU CRAZY?
2007-03-01 04:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jaizmin P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to your best friend and let her know what kind of a guy she is seeing. If she chooses not to believe you, just stay away when this guy is around. If he has this kind of personality, eventually, it's going to come out in his relationships. Your friend needs to know beforehand.
2007-03-01 04:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd kick the hell out of him personally, but violence is not the answer. Call him out on it and tell him to quit it. If that doesn't work, tell the girl whats up and tell her that you really don't want him to be around if your gonna be there.
2007-03-01 04:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Tom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should have reported this abuse to the police. depending on how long ago this was...you may still be able to report this to the police. of course you know...you need to tell someone. he needs to be put in jail for doing what he did to you. what are you watiing for? go to the police and tell your mom! the ony way that it will stop is if someone speaks against him. you are stronger than he is. you can do it!
2007-03-01 04:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your friend, she needs to dump that guy. I would never go out with a guy who is mean to my friends. Friends always come first. If she doesn't dump him then she's not a real friend.
Good luck.
2007-03-01 03:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she is your best friend she would kare that he is really hurting you and if she acnt accept that you need to find a new friend, you can really get hurt, your best friend should kare about you enough to tell him to stop, thats horrible it may be lonely but atleast it won't be painful anymore
2007-03-01 04:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by Uhm_crazy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say to her in individual,"hey my telephone is all screwed up,yet i actually wanna get to charm to close you extra appropriate,soooo,wanna dangle out sometime?"Then take it from there.If she says sure,then make a pass.reliable success!!!
2016-12-05 02:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by lesure 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your friend know whats happening and tell her that you will only hang out with her if her boufriends not around or not at all if she continues to date this loser.
2007-03-01 04:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by GARN 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to get your best freind away from him. He's obviously abusive, and if he's doing this to you, then he might do that to your freind, and you wouldn't want that for your best freind, would you? Get help...immediately.
2007-03-01 04:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by Brookie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋