ok so my boyfriend i and i broke up this past weekend. but heres the thing he still wants to be friends with me. his mom called my house to see if i was ok. she said that her and her husband hated all his other gf's cept me. she said they didnt just like me, they loved me. she also said when he told his little brother, that he ran up to his room crying and slammed the door telling him he loved me how could he break up with me. my ex said he still really cares for me and wants to hang out with me and stuff. but the problem is there are 2 other guys that like me and they are both ex boyfriends. they said that my current ex is a loser and how they had told me they knew it would happen. all three of them want to hang out with me. and im in touch with all of them. im sooo confused. what should i do?? can anybody help me please??
2007-03-01 03:51:33 · 10 answers · asked by SMasewicz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he broke up with me. so i dont think stayin in touch with has parents would give him false hopes.
2007-03-01 04:11:17 · update #1
i would advise that u dont listen to people but ur heart..becoz ur heart tells u the true feeling of the guy..maybe u like the ex bf that the little brother cry..just go some where u like alone n relax.u will find the answer there.
2007-03-01 04:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by groover1_1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to take a break from all of these ex-boyfriends!
If you honestly think that you can remain "friends" with this guy, even when you both start dating other people, then I say go for it. I dated this girl in high school, same situation, we broke up but her parents loved me. I ended up going to her house all the time to play cards with her dad. She came home one night from a date and I was sitting at her kitchen table. I was fine with it, but she was a little wierded out by it.
Point is, you can make it work if you both feel the same way, but if one of you is still wanting more than the other one, then it won't work. At a minimum though, I think you should still keep in touch with his little brother and his parents. It sounds like they sincerely care about you.
2007-03-01 03:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by ski4ever1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need some "you" time before you start dating anyone else, or hanging out w/ someone else.
Spend time w/ the girls...step away for a while and then look back and see who you want to hang out with.
2007-03-01 03:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by Niffer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think that he is emotionally mature enough to just be your friend and able to handle seeing you with someone elese please cut him off. I would cut back on communicating with the parents as this could give him and them faulse hope and put you in a very odd position and state of mind.
2007-03-01 03:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by GARN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course your ex boyfriend that like you are gonna say he's a loser because if they tell you that and you beleive them your obviously not going to go back out with him
2007-03-01 03:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady you are not confused.You know what you want listen to your inner being.Think about what you want and not what other people want,because in this life, the only person that can make you happy is yourself.
2007-03-01 04:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by Macdonald D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should pick your favorite one, and not be friends with the other 2. Things will be best that way.
2007-03-01 03:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by jacksfullhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue doing what you are doing...yall broke up for a reason. Date around but don't lead your x on. Don't try to make him jealous either b/c you will hurt him and he will try to do it back. Just keep your friendship...and move on
2007-03-01 03:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on a date with all of them seperately see which one you like best
2007-03-01 03:55:51 · answer #9 · answered by Uhm_crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you???????
2007-03-01 03:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Torres 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋