okay i'm datin a guy who i love soo much but lately i've been attracted to females i mean they just turn me on ...anyways my boyfreind does'nt wanna have a 3-some whats up with dat???
2007-03-01 03:47:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he probably just is committed to you and he sees it as wrong to give himself to another when he is committed to you. my man is the same way. : ) try watching porn together.good luck.: )
2007-03-01 03:54:32 · answer #1 · answered by Linds 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels insulted that he's not enough for you. Maybe he's happy with just you. Maybe you need to break up for a while so you can sort out your feelings. You sound a little con fussed. Maybe he's not the right guy for you and you should find someone who's into threesomes? It is scary. My ex husband wanted to do that where it would be with another girl. I was worried about getting diseases or worse, the other girl getting pregnant. So, who would be the brave soul to tell the child that they were born out of a threesome? Would you want to learn that about yourself? (yes, you can use protection, but the only guarantee of not getting pregnant is not having sex at all) . Just some stuff to think about.
2007-03-01 03:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't the "2" or "3" years that concerns, it extremely isn't any rely if or no longer you the two are waiting. It sounds like your boyfriend isn't, yet you the two agree which you will probable be engaged by next 12 months? you assert you're arranged to make the dedication now; why no longer make it expert quicker? yet my question is, in case you have long previous see you later already, what distinction is a 12 months greater going to make? whilst your boyfriend is waiting, he will propose. If he would not and keeps putting it off, he's in basic terms too indecisive and you may no longer marry him besides on the grounds that character trait may well be just about impossible to submit with for a complete life dedication. Why put in jeopardy something which you think of is going so nicely just to get hitched some months quicker? I say wait it out, yet communicate it with your boyfriend and enable him now which you may fairly like him to comprehend which you fairly desire to be engaged by next 12 months. do no longer make it appear as if a ultimate date to him, yet be forthright and open with him and enable him comprehend precisely what you in basic terms reported here. If he's extremely worth it, it extremely is going to all make experience to him. in line with danger he in basic terms would not experience waiting to be a husband in basic terms yet! You reported your youthful age...possibly he desires you to be there for him to enable him comprehend which you think of he's waiting.
2016-11-26 22:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a number of things... He could be insecure with having some other girl in the mix. He could be afraid to lose you to another woman. He might not think that 3 somes are appealing. Maybe he thinks that he wants another man next time you ask for a 3 some.
2007-03-01 04:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by hrld_sleeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HORRRAY for your boyfriend..He needs to be in the Genuis Book of World Records...He is a keeper...All that means is that he doesnt want to share you..even with another girl
2007-03-01 03:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it wrong that he loves you? And just wants to be with you. You are the only woman he finds attractive.
2007-03-01 04:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting. I didn't know that any guy would turn that down. I guess just talk to him about how you feel. You two aren't married, so if worse comes to worse, a clean break from him would be easy.
2007-03-01 03:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by Jack 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Huh, a guy with maturity. You better dump him fast, I mean what girl wants a comitted relationship with a nice mature guy.
2007-03-01 04:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by CM 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He may be one of the sensitive males that is the real deal always and would not consider himself one of the pack.
2007-03-01 04:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by jlsmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
common misconception that all guys want that. i personally don't. i dont like to share. plus there's always the insecurity guys have that girls will like other girls better than them.
2007-03-01 03:51:46 · answer #10 · answered by LawDude 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋