i have a friend who her boyfriend gets so mad at her when she don't give it to him. He will stay mad at her for days, and its not like he don't get it from her. They do it at least once a week. i understand men get mad when they don't get it from us when they want it, but most men don't show it. I don't know how to help them any more. HELP
2007-03-01 03:42:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His getting angry is a red flag. The only thing u can do is point that out to her and let her be. If a man gets angry b/c he can not have sex it sounds to me its all about the sex. A relationship neither should love be based upon sex. You use sex to show and reiterate your love for one another. But if he really loves her he wouldnt mind no sex for a day or two. So if he is holding grudges and things then # one he is either going to start cheating making the reason be "you dont give it up anymore" or two he is going to break her heart b/c obviously it seems as if he is more concerned about under the covers then being lovers. So tell your friend she is better than just lying on her back and she needs a man to respect her and her body and loves her for her not what she does to please him really he aint worth it . Us women need to start realizing we are queens and we have to stop puttin up with anything from men. Demand respect cuz they not handing it out to us. Gurl the first time a man respect me he is kicked to the curb cuz i know its plenty more out there that will be there if i need em and i do deserve to be treated like a queen... so if she love herself with the advice i gave the decision is not hard to figure out..
2007-03-01 03:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Im da Example 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a bad deal for both people when sex drives do not align. The women feels bothered and put upon. The guy feels rejected over and over. And the guy probably does feel he is placed in a jerk's role. I have and I really resented being painted that way just because my drive was more than hers.
To put a number on it just dosn't work. If the guy wants it twice a month and the woman only once a month, or twice a day but the woman only wants it once, same deal.
Sex isn't the whole relationship, but if it isn't working, the relationship isn't working. They both need to move on and try to find a better fit.
Yes, this particular guy does sound like he is being a real brat about it, but he probably has stories for his friends too.
2007-03-01 04:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 00:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he gets mad about that then he doesnt deserve her because sex is not only the key to a relationship but me and my bf only have sex 2 or 3 times a week and its perfect 1 time a week is a little low
2007-03-01 03:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to get away from this guy. He is trying to control her with guilt and anger. It will only get a lot worse if she stays. Sex is a wonderful part of a relationship but both people have to want it for it to be wonderful.
2007-03-01 03:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't.He is a controlling crybaby who throws a tantrum when he does not get his way. she needs to find a man, not a boy.
2007-03-01 03:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋