but apparently, he does not like her. I got really mad at him. Since he travels, I have not seen him for 4 days, but now, he is not even calling me. Should I call him and try to talk about it? What should I do? He has cheated on me before....
2007-03-01 03:34:53 · 26 answers · asked by Ana P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummm.....let me get this straight....*she* is chasing *him*?........
......really.....
My guess is that this guy is only interested in trying to "have his cake and eat it too", rather than having a real relationship......He would rather live in his own little fantasy world, than the real one.
Stop wasting your time, and move out. Stop believing his lies anymore.
2007-03-01 04:07:27 · answer #1 · answered by WOMBAT, Manliness Expert 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Sweetie...truth is he is just not that into you. Don't ever ever ever call him. You will get sucked into whatever lie he tells when you know better. He has cheated and apparently still is. What else do you need to see? Not to be cruel but keep it real. Stop wasting your time on him. I say go out and find some men to date and consume your time with meeting new people, work and friends...IF you decide for whatever reason to take him back (please don't) at least make him sweat see if he puts forth a little effort to get you back. If he doesn't ...like I said. " he is just not that into you"
P.S. Oh apparently he does like HER if he is visiting her and you can't even get a phone call...Don't let him play you and you better not call him ;o)
2007-03-01 03:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by Diva Dee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something similar happened to me. You should ask him if he is seeing another girl and tell him that you are mad at him for not calling you. If he says he isn't seeing anyone else, question it further, and if he doesn't look you in the eye he is most likely lying. You said he has cheated on you before, so it could be possible that he is seeing someone else. If he seems suspicious ask him about it. If you can't work it out then just dump him.
2007-03-01 03:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by Catarina Malfoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay now....looks like he quit running and let her catch him. You said "but apparently, he does not like her". Is that what he has told you? Sounds like he's not only a CHEATER, he is also a BIG FAT LIAR! I wouldn't give him the time of day...if he calls, hang up on him and really SLAM THE PHONE DOWN! You deserve better than what he will offer you.
2007-03-01 03:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup and hes cheating on you again! If he did'nt like this girl then why did he visit her? Dont fall for this again if hes cheated once and you let him get away with it then he knows he can do it again. Leave him, before he ends up really hurting you. Dont stand for all this bull*hit that he's feeding you! You should have more respect for yourself!
2007-03-01 03:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he has cheated on you before... it sounds like he could be doing it again... so be careful. and YES, talk to him... tell him this bothers you and that if he cares about YOU, he wont hang out with her that much... Tell him that communication means a lot to you, and that if he cant communicate its over.
If he loves you, and cares about you, then he can make that little sacrifice and change for the better... if not, he's not worth keeping around.
2007-03-01 03:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by Kyle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very bad situation for you to be in.
If he has broken your trust before, is lying to you now, and being angry and not calling... you can pretty much bet that the same thing is going on now.
I would confront him about this.
If he is unwilling to make reasonable changes for you mental and emotional health, then you need to re-evaluate your relationship with him.
2007-03-01 05:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is a personal decision, but I think It is time to dump him. I applaud you for trying to work through things, but at the very least, your partner should be honest and faithful. Save yourself some heartache and move on. Good luck to you!
2007-03-01 03:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay if she's chasing him she's got no chance of keeping him. same goes for you if you chase him.
try sending him a message, telling him how you feel, and see how he reacts. if he doesn't react or make an effort, give up on him. and if he does react and apologize, beg for forgiveness etc, etc, then you'll have to have a think about whether you can really trust him...
2007-03-01 03:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by smethansmee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you just solved your own problem;why waste your time and emotions on someone who cheated on you before and is most likely doing it again. Good riddance to him!!!Move on girlie find yourself someone who means you well.
2007-03-01 03:39:31 · answer #10 · answered by GARN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋