She always says she will and that she's tried of being used and she doesn't want to talk to ever him again...but then hes super sweet to her and she "loves" him again. It's completely obvious he's just a jerk but how do I tell that to her nicely without getting her mad. I've nicely told her to move on like 100 times and she says she tries but she "can't". I know its her issues not mine but she's my BEST friend and I want her to not waste her life.. but I don't want to be really rude and be like controling instead of helpful...so what can I do?
2007-03-01 03:34:51 · 7 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know whats the saddest truth! "LOVE IS BLIND". So no matter how hard you will try or how right you will be, but the moment a person really fell in love with someone, they start thinking from the heart instead of the brain. So what is right or wrong, they dont see, they just prefer to experience the amazing joy and happiness of being in love and living at the blissful moment. So let her learn from her own mistake. Its just a part of growing up and becoming a more mature, wise and better person. What the most you can do is for your 'best fren' is to be be at her side at the bad hours when she really understands her mistake (May god forbids that to happen) and needs you. After all you did the right thing by warning her for 100 times. Didnt you? So there is nothing else u can do other than being at her side in times of need and make her feel better and recover. Thats the greatest gift you can gift to her... trust me!!!
2007-03-01 03:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by Stann 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ummm... ya well, this is the BEST friend.. If i was a stranger, some random person.. Who isn't the best friend and doesn't know you the guy and the situation. Then i would say.. "mind your own business" haha.. lol =) But since i am and i do.. I'm getting over him!
p.s. thanx for sharing my business with the entire Yahoo answers!
Love ya.. BFF Brit
2007-03-01 11:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by Britt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, the best thing you can do is stay out if. Let her learn this lesson on her own. Trust me when she really gets tired of this guy using her she will let him go. Until then it isn't going to matter what you say to her or what you do, she's still going to see him even it she doesn't tell you about it anymore.
I know it's hard to watch your friend make a fool of herself, but she'll just have to learn the hard way.
2007-03-01 03:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This seems like the exact thing i went through with this guy Teddy. He was totally sweet and adorable and told me he loved me and everything else. we were "talking" and planning on going out, but then he went out with another girl and broke my heart. I kept going back to him, and i was always in "love" with him. but he kept breaking my heart. So finally i realized that he was just a pervert that only wanted to get in my pants and told me he loved me just to get with me. It took me a long time to get over him, and im still not completely over him, but im getting there.
Tell your best friend that he is just useing her, and if that doesnt work, get proof. Proof always works. And tell the jerk *** guy to leave her alone, or to commit to her.
Good luck with your best friend!
2007-03-01 03:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by whoahcalleex0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that being their myself a few years ago she is just going to have to realize this on her own . but that doesn't mean stop talking to her about it she needs to hear it . but there is certain times like she is upset with him . another good thing to do would sit down and write all the bad possibilities that could happen if she continues sticking with this guy . have her sit down and read it when she is mad .. also make up a list of all the fun things that she could be doing . how old are you ladies ??? and how old is he
???
2007-03-01 03:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by becky_new mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its her life, she obviously likes it so you should just back off..
2007-03-01 03:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she'll finally learn for herself, once she's had enough, she's not to that point yet
2007-03-01 03:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋