Should I just leave or go ahead and tell his wife too? I am really upset about him making me believe he was getting a divorce, also making me other monetary promises too.
2007-03-01 03:08:58 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell his wife, he should not be ******* around in the first place..
2007-03-01 03:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be the bigger person and move on without him, citing you deserve better! To whine and moan and groan will make him tell you that you are just like his wife and you will not receive anymore money, but likely, none at all. If he thinks you are a valued commodity with lots of other options (which the stupid sap is not smart enought to not figure out his wife has those same otions) then exploit it and you might get more money, unless he has a back-up honey in the wings. Only time will tell.
2007-03-01 11:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my moms friend has been a mistress, for 9 yrs he made her believe he'd divorce his wife... finally the wife found a letter from her, and the wife confronted her and she told her the truth. Now the man doesn't talk to the mistress anymore, but I think they're still married.
It's always best to be honest. If you just want money, and not a relationship with him, have him buy you expensive jewelry and pawn it later. But you must be honest with the wife.
2007-03-01 11:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by Gina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not watse your youth waiting for someone not worth of.. You are young & capable. . regardless what or how a female looks (fat,short,etc) there is always bound to have somone who really loves them truly. Firstly .. asked yourself are you happy being a mistress & with a maaried man ? you can't be going out on the road hand-in hand with him.. All time you are just purely waiting & wasting time.. Get out of that circle.. Do something .. make more friends,take up course, etc.. You desrve someone better who can loves u truly & spend time with you & be there for you when you need him.. Being a mistress.. That guy's wife is seriously sick.. so are you .. Do you think he will be by your side more or his wife's side? He can betray wife to have you .. vice versa.. he can ditch you & find another one.. You do not have many lives.. Since you've *** to this world.. Y not make use of ur time & life.. Live to the fullest & find your true happiness.. Do you think being a mistress .. "he " will take care of you forever? Money.. as long as you are willingly to work ,work hard.. sure no prob..Being able to live happily & freely is more important than having money & materialistic stuffs yet no happiness.. You make yourself suffer .. no one to blame.. you choose your road .. so you have to be responsible & accept when bad times comes & Learn to let go..Search for your happiness.. my child.. Once in a lifetime.. Y wan to be a cagebird...? Show the world,yourself & "him" you can do without him.. Show the best of yourself out..
2007-03-01 11:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by LostSoulx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would do something so horrible to his wife. He was never going to get a divorce anyway. Walk away now. Find a lover that is unattached. Do not hook up with a married man and expect him to leave his wife and family for you. You are simply being used for sex. By accepting money you are also prostituting yourself. Sorry to sound so offensive but this is the truth. Respect yourself!
2007-03-01 11:16:02 · answer #5 · answered by Bitzer Maloney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a losing situation. Yes, your time is and has been wasted. It stinks that this type of relationship can be so powerful as to suck in the most unsuspecting people. Forget the money - you've been strung along. Walk away and fix what's hurt and broken in you. Leave his poor wife alone; if he was a decent man, he would tell her himself and it's his job to do it. Knowing how awful you feel, imagine how much worse you would make her feel.
2007-03-01 11:21:00 · answer #6 · answered by Heffiner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ur fault u believe his lies, seriously other then angelina jolie which homewrecker managed to steal the man away. u were just sex to him an escape from his mundane sex life, a little taste of his bachelor days. u can try blackmail him which would lead to either u in prison or lieing dead in a gutter. also if he divorced his wife she would take half his **** anyway, then u two can live 2gether in a small apartment, and declare ur love 4 one another even get married till he does the same thing 2 u.
2007-03-01 11:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve anything since your the mistress. Besides, I think its pathetic your depending on a man for monetary promises!! Besides, he just gave the old line of divorcing his wife to keep you going. You fell for it. Maybe you deserve it!!
2007-03-01 11:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by luvnau 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are wasting your time.I was on the other side of a relationship like this,I was the wife.Did you know that most things go in her favor ? He may not have any money by the time she gets finished with him. You may love him,but he is not worth the time.Dump his !@$. He may do the same thing to you IF he marries you.
2007-03-01 11:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by buttercup4476 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the thing i don't get. You want to marry him, but he is cheating on his wife. What is the guarantee that he even if he does divorce his wife will not do this to you. I do not get people that do this at all. When you get married you have to have complete trust. If he is cheating on his wife are you prepared to be cheated on. Because most likely he is going to cheat on you too.
2007-03-01 11:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mouth shut, cut your losses and move on. Remember, if a man is married, still living with the wife and out with you he is a cheater and a liar to you, her or both of you. Is this the kind of person you want to spend your time with?
2007-03-01 11:15:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋