last night i went out with my gf's and I told my bf (of a month and a half)that I would call him back when I got home,but i ended up fallin asleep.he called me at 11:30 last nite and it woke me up.He asked me yesterday if I wanted to hang out tonight and watch a movie when I asked him to confirm if we were still hanging out,he said maybe.I got angry with him because he is so unreliable.he was really drunk and out with his friends,and just ended up getting mad at me and hanging up on me,so i called back.he kept telling me to just go to bed,but i was so angry i couldnt.he hung up again.so i called back until he answered and he said that i was really annoying him and he couldnt do it anymore,i asked if that meant we were broken up and he said i guess so and hung up.we have had such a good time since we started going out,so i cant believe he would end it like that. what do you guys think? what should it do?should i call him or text him asking if he meant wat he said?(im 20,hes24)
2007-03-01 03:08:30 · 19 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FYI!!! I wasnt out partying, i was watching America's Next Top Model!!!!!!!
2007-03-01 03:32:38 · update #1
wow your really old to be in the 7th grade...
2007-03-01 03:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't talk to him, let him come to you. There is no bigger turn off then a needy insecure girl that calls 1000 times. The damage was done last night when you did not leave him alone. He may have been a jerk last night, but you showed him just how crazy you can get by calling him over and over again. Leave him alone and if he wants to get back together with you then he will call. A month is not that long so you should not be that heart broken. You should take this as a lesson that the last thing guys want from their girl is a million calls in the middle of the night when they are out with their friends.
2007-03-01 11:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by micah z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes not really into the relationship. If he was really drunk that night and was doing that, I would call him and found out if he ment what he said or not. And if he didnt. Make him pay for the drama he caused you, lol. But I would try and get things straightened out. Good Luck, hope this helps a little.
2007-03-01 11:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by SummerLovin' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two cent's worth here:
you went a more than just a little psycho on him and gave him a real good indication of what things might be like if it was to go much farther than a the six weeks it already had.
I think what you need to do is spend a little time single, trying to mellow out a bit. but hey, look at it this way, good judgement comes from experience and experience comes from bad judgement. Live and learn...
2007-03-01 11:16:44 · answer #4 · answered by arjo_reich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was just the alcohol talking...guys tend to be jerks sometimes when they've had too much. I think everytime my husband drinks liquor he says he hates everyone and he wants a divorce sometimes. Yeah, stupid, I know. Anyway, I would text him and see if he's feeling any better since last night and ask him if he really meant what he said.
2007-03-01 11:14:05 · answer #5 · answered by Alisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a breakdown of communication. You to should meet up and talk, and dont shout at him for being unrelable because you were just the same when you was with your friends. Everyone makes mistakes. If you like him that mcuh swallow your pride and tell him your sorry and want to give it another go.
2007-03-01 11:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unable to understand the moral integrity and romantic honesty of someone your in a relationship with, even when they are drinking, kick them to the curb now before it escalates into something more that is going to require a lot more energy to work out later.
2007-03-01 11:15:38 · answer #7 · answered by jlsmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both sound unreliable. You are upset because he says MAYBE he can hang out, when it wasnt even "confirmed" in the first place, and He got mad because you didnt call him back after hanging out with your girls. YOU sound extremely "its all about me" in this relationship. Find someone who can worship ONLY you, because it appears that may be what you need. Good luck finding that.
2007-03-01 11:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
here is a tip for you. GUYS DO NOT LIKE IT WHEN GIRLS GO OUT AND PARTY AND DO NOT CALL THEM WHEN THEY SAY THEY WILL. that means the girl is an inconsiderate and possible wh**e. how would you like it if he went out and partied with his guy friends with other girls around and he didnt call you when he said he would WHAT do you think he would be doing. ??!?!?! if you want to fix it, you need to end your crazy party behavior without himm hang out and party WITH him, tell him all this.. tell him how inconsiderate you were for not calling him, and assure him you wernt doing anything you wernt suposed to be doing. but i can garuntee that he more than likey was since he was pissed at you and said sure we are broke up, more than likely he is in bed with another girl right now.
2007-03-01 11:14:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, you're 20? He's 24? Oh come on. Sounds like junior high drama to me.
Y'all are better not together.
2007-03-01 11:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go and if he still wants you tell him things will be different between the two of you and that there is no more time to horseplays with your lives here drinking and being in a relationship is bad if you choose to stay with him be careful because that drinking could cause problems worse then your current situation trust me i watch my aunt suffer through abuse of her alcoholic husband its NOT pretty GOOD LUCK GURL BYE!
2007-03-01 11:16:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋