i am a young 23 year old male, bu as yet still a virgin, i do not agree with prostitute's or that type of thing,
many thanks
eddie
2007-03-01 03:02:13 · 19 answers · asked by edward.hunter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know a Ms Palmer & her 5 daughters
2007-03-01 03:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you are approaching this the wrong way.
Sex without a least a pretence of a relationship is like picking your nose - satisfying for a bit but you hope no-one finds out you do it.
I can understand why you feel you want to lose it at your age but it will be a much better experience - actually it will be an expereince full stop - if you just wait until you meet someone you feel you can trust. You might feel that she'll think you are a loser for being a virgin but if she cares for you she won't, she'll be forgiving and loving and kind. You can't bluff this kind of thing, if you just pick up a girl and try to bluff that you know what you are donig they will just think you are rubbish in bed and not bother to call you. Whereas you are not rubbish just a bit lacking in expereince and a girlfreind will understand that and be flattered by it.
So try talking to some girls and make some friends. It might take a little longer but it will be much better for you.
Good luck.
2007-03-01 11:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by Leapling 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Basically I agree to what Leapling says.
It may sounds rather naive, but whether it is the case of a man or a woman, having the first sex with the opposite sex should be something special in your life. It should be something you will remember for the rest of your life as a nostalgic memory.
Losing your virginity is just so easy as you may know well of it.
But are you OK with having a casual sex with a woman you may even don't know what sort of a person she is?
I believe one can feel delight of sex not merely in terms of physical satisfaction but in the combination of both physical and mental satisfaction.
So if you really want to have your first unforgettable wonderful sex of life, don't rush. Just be a bit more patient until you come across your ideal partner for your first sex. Don't get me wrong.
I'm not saying you should wait until you marry. All I'm saying is to wait until you meet your nice girl.
In the meantime, try to be associated with some girls around you.
Good luck!
2007-03-01 23:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out with friends and chat to any girl that catches your eye.Don`t be overly eager to jump into bed with her - more often than not she`ll just be out for a laugh and not wanting some drooling fumbler all over her LOL.
Build up a raport and then if it happens it happens.
And for her sake don`t make a fool of yourself just because you`re in a hurry to pop your cherry mate.
2007-03-01 12:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you feel you need sex ? after all your only 23, whats your rush !!!!! what ever happened to love and all that crazy thing. OK enough of the bull shitt get yourself to the nearest bar/club tomorrow night, find the ugliest woman from the top branch of the ugly tree, ply her with drinks and within an hour you will have lost your virginity, trust me it worked for me !! OK i felt sick for a month afterwards, and never wanted my friends to know what I'd done, but man was she worth it !! well no she wasn't really, so take no notice of me. Happy hunting (have i spelt that right or should there be a C on that word ?)
2007-03-01 11:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Try getting a girlfriend and get to the point where you can have sex with her. Also i respect you for not losing your virginity to a prostitute.
2007-03-01 16:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, Eddie, you should boost your moral, spiff up those looks and get the wits ready.
girls like charming and outgoing men. if you know how to joke, have manners and have some self-confidence you are sure to get a girl.
you may try a disco...nothing like trying out the moves with a girl without getting her in bed...but you should try someone with experience and patience...for the first time... cuz it's gonna be wham! bam! thank you ma'am
2007-03-01 11:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by Madeline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it sounds old hat but yahoo chat isnt bad for meeting people and dating sites are useful to. i met my partner tho one two years ago and am very much in love. look for a relationship before looking for sex and the intimate side will follow. good luck
2007-03-01 11:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by elaine g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pluck up the courage and talk to a girl in a bar on a night out, what have you got to loose, if she walks off then so what! move onto the next one, you'll find someone eventually!
2007-03-01 11:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by Keira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Ibiza lots of free easy women there or go to Amsterdam lots there or go to Thailand lots there, but you have to check they are actaully women first in Thailand, or go to Dublin on a Saturday night lots of drunk easy women or go to any major city centre on a weekend night lots of free easy women or a Uni campus any night during the week, actaully wherever there's drunk women theres the possibility of sex
2007-03-01 11:15:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋