i live in nashville, i met her in puerto rico while i was playing basketball 1 year ago, and she left her job and moved back to tennessee for me while i was at work she found a txt message to another girl that said "i miss u" and another that said "why wont u kiss me" but it was just a joke to the girl and i wasnt serious and she didnt believe me, and thought i was cheating and bought a ticket and went to her sisters house in Orlando. We have been together for a year, this is the FIRST fight we have ever had..She said she was never coming back and could never trust me again. She left some things in my house, but said that she wanted me to "mail" them to her. this is the second time she found a message like this, I have never cheated on her...im am just a flirt. I am lost without her, how do i get her back? I now know i was wrong and am finished with flirting. I am thinking about giving her about 10 days and driving there and saying im sorry. Is that a good idea? what should i do?
2007-03-01 02:53:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it was smart to leave a text message to another girl in plain sight. You should apologize to her, and say that you're the only one you want and not her. Good luck.
2007-03-01 02:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by Kristen H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirting on the Internet can cause problems for everyone involved. The woman on the net can get hurt, thinking she is starting a lasting relationship. The first mistake was not letting your girlfriend know. After all you said it was all in fun. She was very hurt and I am sure she is feeling deceived and unloved.... No woman wants to feel like like a second choice! I would say by her leaving items behind that she still wants you in her life. After all love is not like the sniffles..... you don't get over it that easy. Send her flowers daily with sweet notes, IE I miss you and love you every moment of the day. If there is love in her heart for you she will come around. I am happy to read that you learned your lesson about flirting. Always remember that honesty is the only form of true love.
2007-03-01 03:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by Pearlinpc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be sorry. You have no right flirting with other girls. She is right to leave you and if you are serious then you need to drive there with a huge embarrassing display of flowers and beg for her to come back to you. If you are lucky she will and if you ever do this again you can't expect her to take you back again. She is a strong girl for leaving you this time so you know she is not going to let you walk all over her.
2007-03-01 03:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by micah z 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be pretty mad if I was her. I would try to get "info" on the girl you TEXTED but I wouldn't leave you id talk it over. Just wait the 10 days... bring her some flowers and a card... write a sweet poem and tell her you are VERY sorry and that you love her asnd that you never cheated... good luck... if that doesnt work, find a way to please or satisfy her.... what ever it takes!!! I'm puerto rican too...we do get "attitudes" LOL **** luck ^_^
2007-03-01 03:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what I can tell you is that women are very sensitive. they really care about their men and once you do that you lost their trust. If you love her as much as you claim, you will stop flirting with other women. Women are very jealous and they don't really understand sometimes what you are doing and they overreacted too sometimes. So, if you love her, you will do better by her. Love comes once. You can say we love again with another women or men, but the one we gave our heart to always remain a part of us. I was there once and I am still there, so good luck
2007-03-01 03:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by Rudeline C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing worse than a Puerto Rican woman on rage sorry to tell you. If she is serious she wont come back. As far as what you can do is keep trying to talk to her and convice her that you are willing to make it work. Offer to move to her she did it for you.
2007-03-01 03:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but she is a smart girl; honestly it is refreshing to know that someone is not going to put up with crap. Sorry, I have to go with her on this one, the thing is and she must think a lot like me you have intentions. I dated a guy and a girl from his work kept calling him and he was intending on meeting up with her. That is all I needed and you know he did the same thing cried that he wanted me back etc... Nothing is more disgusting to see a guy be pathetic kinda makes my stomach turn. So, your best option is to move on she did.
2007-03-01 03:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by pattiof 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um if you have a gf no flirting or texting other girls sorry but it's just as hard for girls so deal! Ok if you want her back you have show her that you will stop flirting with other girls and stop looking at them sit her down and have a long talk . . .I hope this helps!
2007-03-01 02:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by sam_roxmysox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you got caught with your hand in the cookie jar. You were cheating, and when you realize that, you might be able to hold on to one girl.
In the mean time, enjoy life with all of the others!!!
2007-03-01 02:57:48 · answer #9 · answered by pnk517 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you should have deleted them, but yet i got one sayin i miss you from a guy who likes me and yet i explained to my b/f at the time that i didnt like him that way and he would always say stuff like that and he believed me. but just say you are just friends and you don't like her in that way at all and you only have feelings for her and maybe that will work. but just say that you are gonna express how you feel and she may not believe you but you know in your own heart its the truth and she can believe what she wants...hope everything works out! good luck! just tell the truth:D
2007-03-01 03:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by tls_2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋