If you are bisexual, is it possible to be able to have a monogomous relationship with someone without feeling you are suppressing or compromising yourself sexually?
2007-03-01 02:53:47 · 8 answers · asked by susan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure it is possible. If you are bi you like either sex in a sexual or romantic manner, right? So you find a person and fall in love with that person. It doesn't mean you are gay nor does it mean you are straight. It is about you as an individual.
As for those who say they are bi and their spouse allows them to explore it, that sure sounds like cheating to me. If you don't think so, try this experiment... bring someone of the opposite sex home. See what spouse thinks. It is the same thing, isn't it? You're "bi," right? I'm sorry, but in marriage you COMMIT to someone, not someone plus this FWB or that FWB. Most guys who say it is okay for their "bi" wives to spend time with other women want some of her for themselves, too. Trust me about that. I'm a guy. So, this is in no way being faithful.
I had a few experimentation experiences way back when. It was fun, but not the thing for me. I'm happily married and I'd never think of CHEATING on my wife.
This may sound lame, but there's always p0rn.
2007-03-01 03:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are bi in a monogomous relationship and your still having feelings for someone else and suppressing feelings, it means to me your not comfortable being monogomous, but i do think it's normal, because staight people are in relationship and they still want other people or have feelings for other people at the same time. you have to do whats right for you
2007-03-01 02:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by sonya h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly believe that you can. I myself am in a long term relationship with a person of the opposite sex but they are well aware that I too like the same sex. My partner doesn't try to oppress my feelings and I'm free to talk about them. I don't think someone has to have sex just to express themselves sexually. Personally, I'm happy going out with someone that I'm attracted to and just generally having a good time with them. Thereby remaining monogamous and satisfying my feelings for the same sex. Be open with your partner see what they have to say on the subject :)
2007-03-01 03:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sagittarius Uisce Beatha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. It's kind of like a magnet pulling you into it. Some do better than others but, If you are Bi That means you want both from time to time. It's cool, and fun to be able to love both.
2007-03-01 02:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by Fireman T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am currently in a monogomous relationship with my husband. HOWEVER, I am bi, and he allows me to explore that side of myself whenever. He doesnt consider me being with another girl cheating. I think if you are bi, and you want to explore this side of yourself, You need to be in a NON jealous and open relationship with your significant other. Good luck
2007-03-01 02:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
maybe not because u will get constant urges to go 4 the opposite sex. if u really tried, u could possibly do it.
2007-03-01 02:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by sexy_stud829 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-03-01 03:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
over active sex glands. You can pick a sex to be with
2007-03-01 02:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by corina381 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋