to theirmom and they even are close physically. My fiancee says "one brother in a Latin family usually is that way with their mom, even though my brother's weird anyway." So, in a nutshell, my 28yr old fiancee doesn't get along with his older 32yr old brother because they're very different, just so you guys know their relationship is not strong. So, this guy came over to fix our computer and he was nice and they were trying to make small talk of it, since they barely talk, and my fiancee's brother made a joke that went: "...yea, he was a nice kid and good at the computer. I don't know about the way he was looking at mom's body though lol"............ok, this to me was disgusting because first of all, who makes a sexual joke about their mom and second his mom is 64, she's old like a real grandma is and it doesn't make sense to make a sexual joke about her even if you were a stranger on the street. She's not a sexy milf..even my fiancee's was uncomfortable about the joke,what's thismean
2007-03-01 02:52:26 · 6 answers · asked by tiff 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like theres alot of sibling rivalry there, like its a competition to be closest to their mum or to be the mummies boy! Not in a sexual way, but maybe his brother is jealouse of the relationship your fiance had with their mum so by saying things like this it will altermatically make your fiance distance hisself from her. If you know your fiance well and know hes not like a weirdo who would fancy his own mum then i would'nt worry about what his brother says, sounds like hes just trying to cause trouble and put doubt in your mind. Ignore him!
2007-03-01 03:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may of been simply is way of trying to cut the tension in the room. I am sure he simply meant it in a decent way which can be taken entirely differently if you do not know the individual that well, and do not get along with them. Let it drop..
2007-03-01 10:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you have a sick brother in law!! And he has a pretty weird family!! I don't think i would want to spend thanksgiving with his family that would scary me.
2007-03-01 10:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you simply ask his brother what he meant by that..That would be the adult way to handle the situation...THING'S THAT MAKE YOU GO HUMMMM....
2007-03-01 10:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no clue... talk to them about it... ask. I wouldn't want to marry a man who *coughed* his mom... bluh/.\
2007-03-01 11:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by superhappytacklepounce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor taste.
That's about it.
2007-03-01 10:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋