Me and my GF have been going out for nearlly 1 yr but recently she has been acting very oddly. I have been very stressted at work and with money ect so we have been arguing all the time. We have been living together for nearlly 5 months now.
we only have sex 1 time a week where it was 5. Is she cheating on me? We both decided it would be a good idea if i go to my parents for the weekend and when i surgested not going she got mad and said but im going out with the girls. She's started to get ready for the weekend allready having a sun bed (which she dose'nt have often painting her nails and stuff)
Am i over exagerating thing again?
2007-03-01 02:48:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm.....i think that it is a possabilty that she is seeing another guy. try this. one weekend, come home with flowers and suggest getting away for the weekend just the two. when ever me adn my fieance' (dont know how to spell it) get into fights and they go on for a while we pack our bags and get away from everyone and adn the house it helps. you also need to talk to her about how you are feeling. i wish ya the best of luck!
2007-03-01 02:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by sexy momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is definetly not right. I don't know if she is cheating on you---but she may be thinking about it. Have you thought of turning the tables on her? Tell her that you aren't going to your parents this weekend but are going to go stay with some guy friends and hang out? If she thinks that you are going to do the same thing as her, then her reaction to that may tell all. If she gets bent out of shape, then she is probably afraid that you are going to go out and shop for other attention etc.
It seems that there is a lack of communication, trust and in general it seems a re-prioritizing of each of your lifes is in order. Money doesn't by happiness, so why worry so much over it? As long as you are doing the best at your job that you are capable of, then why are you stressed? Jobs are just temporary things in the scheme of life. You don't live and die there. Gauranteed they won't cry a river if you aren't there. Your life with your chosen partner is suppose to be forever--that is the one thing that doesn't change. You can change jobs, go through bankruptcy and repossessions, but you are suppose to be with that "soul mate" for life---is she your soul mate? Then maybe you should put the time and effort into her that you put into your job and worrying about your money, and see if you can save that!
2007-03-01 11:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably a little over-reacting with a little need for time apart. Sometimes you don't know what you've got till its gone. have you heard of the old Proverb that Abscence makes the heart grow fonder?
Also, are you showing the same amount of love an attention to your GF as you did before? Girls do not have an on/off switch. If you are only touching her or kissing her when you want sex...you won't get it! LOL... We have this thing inside us that makes us NEED love and attention. If we aren't getting that... you guys aren't getting what you want either.
My advice is to smother her with attention. Take her out to dinner dispite the money issue. (If she is going out with the girls, she isn't worried about money either.)
2007-03-01 10:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by CeeCee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you two need to sit down and talk about the situation. Communication is the key to any relationship. You two need to get away.... where only you two are involved (mini vacation)...... About the sex thing...try something new....Take her to a nice dinner come home and GIVE IT to her.....I think there might be lack of communication.
2007-03-01 11:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not overreacting. Something has changed with her, she might not be cheating but something is up. Maybe your spending too much time together. Go to your parents and call her when you can.
2007-03-01 11:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you're not.. something is odd when you tell her you are not going to your parents house and she gets mad. She might have planned something that she doesnt want you to know about. Talk to her and find out whats going on before its too late.
2007-03-01 10:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well trust is the biggest part of a relationship and you have already gotten to the point where you don't trust her so
follow her
2007-03-01 10:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I'd say sheis cheating on you!
2007-03-01 10:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by kp girl 15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not exagerating! Dump her before she does it to you.
2007-03-01 10:56:08 · answer #9 · answered by piero g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts. Something is up.
2007-03-01 10:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋