My boyfriend met my firned stephanie the other day and every since then, he keeps asking what Steph is donig and we should hang out with Steph tonight!!!! is there a reason why he does this!!! I mean our bedroom life is still as amazing as the first time and hes still as lovey as he ever was!!! Do i need to worry or am I just being paranoyed? PLZ help me!!!! Do you think I should talk to him and let him know that it makes me uncomfortable when he talks about her ALL THE TIME?!?!?!?!?!?
2007-03-01 02:45:07 · 18 answers · asked by JessieRae07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he likes her and thinks she's a cool girl. but to what extent? you'll have to ask. i'll ask my girl to hang out with some of her friends sometimes cause there are certain ones that make me laugh. but it's not like i'm interested in them or anything. just ask him about it if it really bugs you. if you have a good relationship, you should be able to tell him that it's been bothering you without it causing any trouble.
2007-03-01 02:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by eriq p 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Did you talk her up before he met her? And then when the two of them met, they hit it off? He may just be trying to include your friends because he thinks its the right thing to do. I piss my woman off pretty good when I say things like (about other women), "She's awesome" or "That girl rocks." It doesn't mean I want these women. At the same time, you are his girl and he should not be concerned with anyone else. Just tell him. It'll sink in!
2007-03-01 10:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by Cookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he DOES like her, is that any of your business? I'd suggest just asking him about it. Of course he'll probably say he loves you more than anything else or something like that, but if he does then there's a good chance he's just saying that because he thinks that like the girl stereotype if you heard anything else you'd start crying and calling him an unfaithful bastard and making everything miserable for both of you. :\
2007-03-01 10:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would suggest that he is interested in Stephanie as well --- and a happy sex life is not a sure sign --- by all means talk to him let him know and if he does truly care for you will stop talking about her --- best wishes
2007-03-01 10:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it happens alot, I would be worried. Could be eye candy. I've asked my gf the same thing, but only cuz I know she wants to hang out with her and it gets me extra points with her.
2007-03-01 10:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by whatever 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say that Steph has his attention right now.
2007-03-01 10:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by Dan821 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, just explain to him how it make you feel,but if he still do the same thing you should let him go.Because something is wrong with that picture.
2007-03-01 10:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by ddreaddsjr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he wants to show you that he cares about your friends as well. Just let him know that this could be an issue for you.
2007-03-01 10:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think i would be to worried yet, If he wants to hang out with her with you. I would start to worry when he is spending a lot of time with her with out you.
2007-03-01 10:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask him if he wants you to make arrangements for them to be alone together.
It'll probably force him to be more honest about how he feels about her.
2007-03-01 10:49:58 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋