I just dont get it. She broke up with me because she felt that she wasn't ready for another relationship and that she has to focus with college and that I would be better off as a friend. I respected her decision
We have a class together but for the first 2 weeks she literally ignored me and tried to avoid me as much as possible.. I tried to ask whats wrong and got nothing but a cold attitude. Afterwards, I didnt push the issue any further and left her alone. Then out of nowhere she starts being friendly again and starts to talk to me again.
However, I feel like she doesn't respect me. Everytime we were in class she would always talk to our friend and leave me out of the conversation.. Even when we would do work together, she would only come to me when she has to
Recently she started being cold again and I got tired of it.. so i ignored her for that day. she asked me what was wrong and I confronted her about it and that I didnt care anymore. she got defensive and now we dont talk.
2007-03-01 02:31:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wants the control. She wants the relationship with you on her terms.
Those times she was ignoring you, she was probably just trying to reign in her emotions and convince herself that you don't matter to her. You do matter to her, she realised she doesn't want you out of her life but she wants it on her terms. You know what I mean? She wants you to be there and available when she wants you to be. It's complicated.
2007-03-01 02:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but it looks like your girl is a little miss attention seeker. All girls like their attention but she takes it too far! Being all nice and friendly with you one minute and then cold the next is a great way to mess with someones head and she knows that if she does this you are going to keep asking her whats wrong and giving her lots of attention, whats more she can see that you are trying really hard to be friendly with her and she's getting a buzz from that. STOP IT! I suggest you play her at her own game for a while and then we'll see who gets the attention! Sounds like you're too good for her anyway!
2007-03-01 10:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex sounds confused as ever leave her alone. Eventually you will move and have something better because who wants drama in there lives. I think that she wanted a little more freedom like to play and flirt with other boys because to ignore you and not talk to you for a day than be in your face only when necessary is fake as hell. Its better off you find someone else because she be mad while you are happy.
2007-03-01 10:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by Snoopy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't know what she wants. She's being imature. It's hard enough to have a friendship with a mature ex, let alone one who is confused...
Move on. She's going to keep doing this to you, it'll spoil any chance and a lasting relationship and you'll have wasted time on her.
If you were the one for her, or she was mature... But it's neither...
Good luck.
A~
2007-03-01 10:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are something very special.They can be mad at you one minute and love you the next. Can make one wrong move and she doesn't want to talk to you for the whole day.My advice as a woman is to kill he w/ kindness.If she in the don't be bothered move then give her space. But please never bbe a push over!
2007-03-01 12:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by Y ask ME! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made the right decision. She probably has been playing around with other guys but wants to have you be her "friend." By friend, of course, I mean you will be someone who gives her money and does favors for her, but never get anything in return. Buddy this crap really happens, trust me. I have friends who allow themselves to get strung along and it is painful to watch.
2007-03-01 10:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by Guerrilla M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she is just confused and maybe not sure she made the right decision. I say just let her have her space.
It all sounds a little immature. Do you want a friend like that?
2007-03-01 10:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by sharky1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know what kind of game she's playing at. Ignore her and move on with your own life. Don't let her drive you nuts. She sounds unstable to me - someone to avoid at all cost.
2007-03-01 10:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sound's very childish and she is your EX for a reason leave it that way.Move on and leave her in your past.You said yourself that she does not respect you so why do you want to torture yourself with her she can only treat you the way that you ALLOW her to..Good Luck..
2007-03-01 10:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she is trying to distance herself from you, to perhaps make the breakup easier for her, I know I know , she broke up with you, but it is control too that is why she is probably doing this.
2007-03-01 10:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by junetwin2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋