were in high school she is new at school and we talk once... i started the conversation saying its cold outside when she was about to go outside and get a snack out of the snack machine... and i stayed inside by myself and she comes back in and starts to talk to me... we talk about our school history and religion. She told me she lives with her grandmother and she goes to this big church... she told me she used to go to private school and she had to wear a dress and she didn't like it... so she now goes to the public school... she also said that our class feels like it's summer school... are conversation ended when are 10 min break was over and back to work... i was leaving early right when break was over... she told me she was leaving in 2 hours... anyways, she said she was a loser and she walk back to class and I told her no your not... and that was it we both walk away and headed in different directions.... i thought the conversation was going good, but she was doing most of the talking... why do you think she called her self a loser for? she sound kinda serious when she called her self a loser... maybe she thought i was bored with our conversation... Next day in class I was doing my work and this girl ask for a piece of gum and the girl im interested was sittin behind me and she ask for a piece too. I gave both of them a piece and the girl i'm interested said i'm sorry for bothering you and I said that's alright. I was going to say something than she puts her head down and goes back to work. She didn't have any friends when she was new now she has 1 that's really her true friend which he's gay btw. Anyways when she walks past me she won't even look at me. I hate when a girl ignores you like that. I'm not gonna talk to her unless she looks at me because to me that just seems like she doesn't want anything to do with me. I don't really know her that well, but i think she been acting weird. The class was on break so almost everyone goes outside and gets some fresh air and some stay inside by the door and waits for break to be over. The guys and I stay inside and wait for break to be over while the girls go outside and get some fresh air. I saw her talking to this guy outside and she anyways break was just about over and the girl comes inside and she kinda shouts to the guys if the door was lock. The guys said yea and than she seem like she had an attitude sayin in a rude way i'm going right back outside and goes right back and talks to the guy. Then I went outside and told her the door is now open and she ignore me like she didn't hear me. Maybe she really didn't. She was still talking to the guy. And few minutes later she comes inside and im right there and she didn't look at me. Then she goes back in the class and im still in the hall. So she gets out of class takes out her cell phone and calls her mother. And she goes outside and talks. The guy that she was talkin to was still out there. As soon as there conversation was over she said peace out to him. She could of ask me if the door was lock. I mean I was right next to her when she said it. I haven't went to school for 4 days, but I went today and we both made eye contact for about 3-4 seconds, but her friend was right by the door when i walk in the class... so idk... than as we went on break she was waiting right by the door and i think she was looking at me to see if i would talk to her... but i didnt i walk right past her... i heard her outside yelling on the phone probably a family member... i was inside... i could hear her yelling cause i was right by the outside door... than she came inside cause it was cold outside... she talk on the phone across from me for about 2-3 minutes... than she went right back outside and talk... when she was done talking on the phone... she came inside with her head down... than she look up and look at me in a moody way... than she look back down really quick...she didnt give me a mean look... but she gave me a look like she was kinda mad or upset... we are both shy...
2007-03-01 02:29:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like she is depressed and may be having family problems. Your best bet, if you are really interested in her, is do not wait for her to speak to you first. Don't ignore her, you will never get anywhere with her that way! Always say "hi" to her first. Relationships take time to build, become her friend, smile at her, act like you like her and want to spend time with her. You need to nurture this friendship, and not expect miracles right off the bat, especially since you said that you both are shy. Show her that you care and want to be with her, and she probably will warm up to you.
2007-03-01 02:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you didnt video camera that...
hey man forget whats she's doing talking to other guys whatever
just coz shes acting up it hasnt nothing to do with you, maybe because she knows you know that her friend is gay ,she may think your against him or something,
why dont you talk to him aswell then she will see that your not,
and keep talking to her,
she's new at schoo ,lthis stuff about "I'm not gonna talk to her unless she looks at me" is pretty silly because if you keep thinking that way you got no chance,
just be her buddy, hey why dont you buy her lunch or better yet give her some flowers ,all girl like flowers dont they you could even ask her if you could walk her home from school and keep it to routine ,its a sweet thing to do and you both will get to know eachother..
keep ur cool you were being a gentlemen when you saw her by herself on her first day ,now that counts for something in my books.......
2007-03-01 02:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by dave_6064 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like girlfriend has some issues anyways ask yourself if u feel like going on a roller coaster because if she is showing attitude now what would a relationship be like? you should go on with your everyday school work and let her come to you if she is interested sometime women want what is not good for them especially when we are young and she is new she is probably trying to find her type of crowd in a new place wait for her to do this and then you will know what type of person she is and if you are still interested in her
2007-03-01 02:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by 313 libra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok bud i'm in many circumstances a clever *** in this internet site yet once you're truley feeling that way you should communicate to somebody. Your mum and dad, a instructor, a counselor, a solid buddy. Dude you're 15, have self assurance me once I say this too will bypass. Suicide is a permenant answer to a short-term difficulty.
2016-11-26 22:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is in a new place,give her time.Don't give up on your conversation whether it be alittle here or there.you break that tie and she might really feel alone.talking to different people is just her way of seeing who is nice to her,(maybe testing the waters.She started the conversation with you,so she must of had some type of interest.
DON'T GIVE UP!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2007-03-01 02:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by BaDonkaDonk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright man, well im gonna tell ya straight out. She might of just been acting friendly, but if you really want to know. If i were you anyway, i'd just straight out ask her. What's the worst she can say?...No? Just give it a shot, and good luck.
2007-03-01 02:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by yes i know all the answers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she like you? who knows, the story was so long i got a little confused. maybe you should talk more to her, get to know her a little better and take it from there
2007-03-01 02:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by flojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her striaght ..stop wasting time to guess yea..
2007-03-01 02:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by smiles-I v a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her dear
2007-03-01 02:37:30 · answer #9 · answered by mtm640 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋