last night i went out with my gf's and I told my bf (of a month and a half) that I would call him back when I got home,but i ended up fallin asleep.he called me at 11:30 last nite and it woke me up.He asked me yesterday if I wanted to hang out tonight and watch a movie when I asked him to confirm if we were still hanging out, he said maybe. I got angry with him because he is so unreliable.he was really drunk and out with his friends, and just ended up getting mad at me and hanging up on me, so i called back.he kept telling me to just go to bed,but i was so angry i couldnt.he hung up again.so i called back until he answered and he said that i was really annoying him and he couldnt do it anymore,i asked if that meant we were broken up and he said i guess so and hung up.we have had such a good time since we started going out,so i cant believe he would end it like that. what do you guys think? what should it do?I fell in love with him and it f******* hurts!(im 20,hes24)should i call him?
2007-03-01 02:27:35 · 12 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SHOULD I TEXT HIM AND ASK IF HE MEANT WHAT HE SAID?
2007-03-01 02:28:48 · update #1
Wow, you are definitely "that girl"! Leave him be. He'll call. If you don't leave him alone you'll reinforce the fact that he thinks you're annoying.
I would have done the same thing to you if you were my gf...and btw you're not in love after 1 and 1/2 months...that's just good sex
2007-03-01 02:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by jesse d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. No, don't call him. If you are that important to him, he will call you, not meaning to be insensitive, but he will if he cares, and if not, let him go because you deserve better.I know how you feel. I was in a relationship with a guy for 3 1/2 years who loved to drink and who just turned 35 years old last month, but he was doing this 2 years ago when we broke up,except for breaking up with me.He was pretty much the love of my life, but he would not change for nothing. I think that you are way too young to put up with this kind of crap.You can get somebody who will treat you so much better. Trust me, they are out there. I am 31, and have been hurt alot. I never thought that I would get over the pain. You know, I did not feel like I was going to make it, but I always have so far.People at the age of 24 are sometimes very immature, others are not at all. Best of luck.
2007-03-01 03:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by starchild4485 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 03:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, certainly not.
The real deal is this- when you get together with someone, yes there will be some "bumps" along the way. That's a fact of life, and we all go through it. But the situation you described sort of tells me he isn't ready for a romantic relationship, surely not a commitment.
When you do come across someone that IS WORTH YOUR TIME AND EFFORT, there won't be this kind of BS going on.
It will come easy. It just does.
2007-03-01 02:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jed 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should text him, because like you said he was really drunk and with his buddies and guys try to be a badass when they're with there friends!!! just text him and ask if he meant what he said last night you never know!!!! Good luck
Jessie
2007-03-01 02:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by JessieRae07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call him. ask him how hes feeling and if he feels like talking to u. he will be honest and probably was just over upset due to drinking. if u feel strongly then tell him. dont let it go if u think u guys have something. he probably feels the same way. is trying to figure out how to call u. step up and make the first move.
2007-03-01 02:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.Vick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont call him, if he really loves you he is the one who is going to call you and say sorry but if he does not, then it means time to move on even if you fell in love with him. If he is treating you bad right now, imagine 1 year from now! Trust me you dont want to be in a **** relationship.
2007-03-01 02:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to be with someone that is going to act like that, even if he is drunk. i say get out while you can. you've only been with him a month and a half. but if you do really like him, just be patient, if he wants you he'll call, trust me.
2007-03-01 02:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a battered wife crawling back for more (projection into
the future). Feel fortunate that he's shown his true unreliable colors.
Dump the dude and find someone that cares for YOU.
2007-03-01 02:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T CALL, DON'T TEXT....
let things cool down for awhile. You both
probably said some things right now you wished
you wouldn't have.
2007-03-01 02:32:33 · answer #10 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋