Over the weekend me and my boyfriend decided to take some time apart and he went home. He doesn't have a car and lives like 30 min. away so I asked my ex to give him a ride. In the car my boyfriend tells him how much he cares for me and my children and about what he does for us. Plus says he doesn't understand why I don't want him there and won't give him a key and etc. I don't like the issue of him pouring out his heart to him when we are both adults and he should come to me like a man whenever we have problems. Am I wrong for being upset or just ignore the fact they're discussing my personal business?
2007-03-01 02:05:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only reason I asked him to take him home is because it was cold and snowing and I didn't want to take my kids out in that weather. Plus my boyfriend told me to ask him since he had did him a favor before.
2007-03-01 02:17:38 · update #1
you cant be objective about this, if you get on OK with your ex and you seem to then. He will know you well and be able to provide some direction to your new man if he wants to help. If he came straight round and gave you the full dirt on what was said I would be wondering what his motivation was. Me if I was in his shoes would have kept my gob shut since he done you any favours. But in reflection he current bf should have spoken to you ........ so why didnt he?
good luck
2007-03-01 02:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by happysurferuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your ex about that. If you don't like him talking with your boyfriend about your personal business confront him and ask why he did that. Tell him that the next time he has a problem to talk to you about it. You have every right to be upset.
2007-03-01 10:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by Catarina Malfoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all I would not have my ex give him a ride home. What the he** do you expect they're gonna do?! So its your own fault really..sorry, but its the truth. But I dont really know your sit. so ...secondly, I would be mad..those definitely are things that should have been said to you! Sounds like he kind of wanted him jealous! Sh*t...your lucky they didnt end up fightin! Good luck
2007-03-01 10:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, as a Youth minister i see this all the time, and for the most part there is noting to worry about, by going to ur ex, he is tryign to find out more, as a guy well a human for that matter we try to always look for more, we always want more no matter what it is we got and when it come to knowlegde we always always want more. He's goign to find out hat he wants and look if it gets to werid just tell him that its werid for u and if he really cares for u he will stop. that easy
2007-03-01 10:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by legalboy2_2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course iu should be up set!!!!how con he go and tell ur ex boyfriend that,he should of came to u.......u need to have a talk with him..
2007-03-01 10:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by bye bye!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sure do have a right to be uncomfortable with this isssue
2007-03-01 10:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋