I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, and we have had sex before, but we haven't since before Thanksgiving. Every time I try to get him to, he says to stop because he doesn't want to. What do I do? Is he bored with me? He also never wants to come out to see me. If I want to see him I have to go to him. Does he not love me anymore? Is he seeing someone else?
2007-03-01 01:44:02 · 5 answers · asked by Mimi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is obvious that he doesn't seem committed to the relationship. Try to explain how you are feeling about all this and tell him you want a straight answer about where things are heading. If he can't give you a straight answer and back it up with his actions then he is either afraid to hurt you and split up or maybe you should just tell that if he isn't willing to work it out that you are done. I know it is hard to do but you have to do it if he won't budge. I had to do it a couple weeks ago and I still get upset when I hear love songs and stuff but I know it was the right decision and you just have to put yourself in that state of mind if he won't meet you halfway.
2007-03-01 01:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by kws504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is really showing lack of interest, as to why I do not know. Has your appearance changed drastically in any way from how you used to look? Sounds as if he does have another interest to spend his time with. But what matters is that you ask him what is going on? If he is being evasive with his answers and seems to just be stringing you along, then I would take that to indicate it is over. Sad he is not man enough to at least tell you the truth. Sounds as if he is trying to take the easy way out by letting you take the hint. Without real answers, you are left confused. You need to look at what his actions are telling you and take it from there. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-01 09:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might not be a matter of love. He might be seeing someone else. When I refused my boyfriend (now my ex), it was purely out of boredom. I was bored with him. You need to talk to him and find out what's up. If he doesn't give you an answer, I would say that it's time to move on and find someone else.
2007-03-01 09:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just bored with you and maybe he switched personalitie's over Thanksgiving because he realized something. Do some investigating if you want to, but, listen to Danielle, just ask him these questions, but carefully. And maybe on the times that he wants to do it, you don't try, and on the times that he doesn't you do.
2007-03-01 09:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by Silvia. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be alot of things, stress, no love, bored, cheating, or he just plain werid. talk to him to find out. if he loves you he will talk to you. if he doesnt then start thinking baout moving on. hate to say that though
2007-03-01 09:49:27 · answer #5 · answered by jedi1medic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋