Im in love with a military man, he wants me to move with him where ever he gets stationed at. But the my friends and mom say i should get married first and then move, because he could leave me and im left stuck with no where to go. I have a good job and im kinda iffy about giving that up. But i love him so much. Should i just go with him and hope for the best or get married first to be more secure with things. Whats ur opinion. We have been datin 4 two years.
2007-03-01 00:59:36 · 11 answers · asked by gurllucky7 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opion I think it's a good idea to move around with him if that's what you want to do. Consider the fact that you would be leaving your friends and family and job and make sure it's what you really want to do. Your friends and mom are conserned that he might leave you if you don't marry him first, but if he really loves you then he wont. Moving around with him would also be good to see what it would be like if you two got married and would give you a chance to make sure he's really "the one".
2007-03-01 01:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by Brandy N 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Living in the military is not easy you will be a lone at first but you meet other wife's I would say try it for a couple of month living together. If it is good then marry him if not you can always go home. As for you job if your boss like you You will get that back or find a better one job come and go as for love good love is only once if your lucky 2 times so Just try it.
2007-03-01 09:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by pjlisa13 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friends and your mom are right. If he expects you to make that big of a sacrifice - leaving a good job and moving God knows where - then he should marry you first. Otherwise, you're bending over backwards for him, and he's not meeting you halfway.
If he doesn't love you enough to marry you, then you shouldn't give up your good job for him.
2007-03-01 09:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get married first. Four years is a very long time to be dating without commitment. Always listen to your mom.
2007-03-01 09:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have been dating 4 years. I think its time for marriage! and yes your mom is right, get married first that way you are secure and know that he is FULLY commited.
2007-03-01 09:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your heart say.
Plus-how does he expect you to keep moving with him without any commitment.
Its better you get married first-but do you want to marry him- don't marry for the wrong reasons.
If you love him & think marrying him is right, marry him then move with him .
2007-03-01 09:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have been together for 2 years and he wants you to give up everything and start moving around with him, get married...if he is not willing to do that then I would let him go and if it works out when he comes home great...good luck
2007-03-01 09:02:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen to your mum's advice!!! marriage is important especially when you'll be leaving behind the stable job!
2007-03-01 09:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by *grid_iron gurl* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marry him. If anything happens to him, you'll be glad you did.
2007-03-01 09:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by Phartzalot 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
marriage first
2007-03-01 09:04:13 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋