im 24 years old im very upset,actually im sexually engaged with my ex-boyfrd who cheated me 2 years back we were nt using condom cz we hav sex only for 4 or 5 min so we dnt think condom is necessary,now soon im going to marry with some other person so plz gv me some suggestion that my husband will recognize in first night that im no loonger virgin.plz help how to hide from my husband.plz save my married life
2007-03-01 00:35:07 · 8 answers · asked by shipra s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Why would it matter whether or not you used a condom? You aren't a virgin either way. If you can't be honest with your husband you shouldn't be getting married. Also, please use English and not chat speak. No one wants to try and decipher that.
2007-03-01 00:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by leaptad 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Actually u should not hide anything 4m ur husband who is going to be with u through out ur life. Just think what if u were to be at his place.And abt ur husband knowing that is impossible coz the hymen is not necessary be at its place it may get tored coz of some cycln & streaching & all that...& some may not even bleed if they r havn 1... & guys can't fell it.So u need not worry just make sure if u dont want him to know just forget ur past relationship & act as if u have never had that ok GOOD LUCK. tc. bye
2007-03-01 00:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, you need to be honest with your husband to be. how would you feel if he was not honest about his virginity status? sounds like you shouldnt get married if your already trying to hide things from him. i dont think guys would be able to tell internally if your a virgin or not. even doctors have a hard time telling. you hsould used protection. just because you only did it for 5 mins. doesnt mean anything, there are so many diseases out there and that is a nother reason why you need to be honest.
2007-03-01 01:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by Awesome Rockin Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry.. there is no way that he can find out if u are a virgin or not.. there is that thing about broken hymen and stuff..
but it is not necessary that the hymen breaks only when you have sex for the first time.. there could be numerous reasons for the same.. playing when you were a kid could be one..
so don't worry.. go ahead.. have a happy married life.. just stop cheating on your husband if possible!
2007-03-01 00:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by Human Questionmark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TO:LEAPTAD
this girl sounds like shes probably african because shes spelling as an african would pronounce certain words so why tell her to chat in english???
now as far as all the abbreviations,i can see how that can get annoying,which im guilty of in emails to friends and the like so i will take what you said and apply it to myself as a bit of a wake up call but we shouldnt tell her to speak or chat in english should we?
2007-03-01 00:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to just be good at acting I spose!! Like you really don't know what you're doing!???
Not a very good start to a marriage tho, having to lie.
2007-03-01 00:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by SonicSon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS GOING TO KNW THAT YOUR NOT A VIRGIN ANYMORE SORRY..I DONT THINK THERE IS MUCH YOU CAN DO HERE..I SUGGEST YOU TELL HIM THE TRUTH BECAUSE IF YOU KEEP SECRETS IT WILL EAT U UP INSIDE AND DESTROY YOUR RELATIONSHIP..MAYBE IF YOU EXPLAIN AN IF HE LOVES YOU THAT MUCH MAYBE HE WILL FORGIVE YOU AN U BOTH COULD GO SEE SOME COUNCILER..GD LUCK..X
2007-03-01 00:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by claire4john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing said about past and act some shy
2007-03-01 00:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋