What is the best way to cure my Cousins Homosexuality?

Answer 1

What???

WHAT???

You cannot be serious.

Homosexuality isn't a disease.

How can I cure your ignorance? HUH?

Answer 2

I have it. As a homosexual. And from another post listed in my sources - I am also french and catholic. And as Elvira Kurts mother would say: "I am gay, french, and catholic. All at the same time" (what am i to do).

Now the cure for homosexuality is quite a difficult process. It will be an arduous process. But if followed through the afflication can be removed.

To being the biggest issue facing a gay man is his love for penis. Not just his, but those of other men. This is a very difficult, almost impossible process, because by eliminating his love for penis, he will have to redirect that love towards the vagina. and that is very difficult. because well. To a gay man it it is yucky. Really it is. You can not FEAR this dislike of the penis into him. As stated in my other post, FEAR has the unique effect of having people worship what they fear. Thereby defeating the whole purpose of what we are trying to acheive.

Of course, if your cousin is female the opposite is true. For the sake of this answer, I will assume your cousin is male. Just replace the appropriate words to suit the situation.

Now how you acheive this will vary based on the individual, you know your cousin best. So find a way.

Secondly, you must begin to have your cousin understand that they are not turning away from something bad (defensiveness and denial all that bad stuff we dont want) Now if you succeed in this, move to step three.

Step three: This part is all you. This is the realization you must come to: IT CANT BE DONE! Once you come to the realization of this, you will be better off for it and will not have awkward moments at family gatherings, and the 'omg what do i do' when you get his wedding invitation in the mail' (in Canada it's legal - although i dont know why - marriage is pointless.)

Hope this helps. Thank you. Thank you so much.

Answer 3

I am not sure that there is a "cure", per se. There is no doubt that some people are more "oriented" to that type of a lifestyle just as some people are more likely to be alcoholics, adulterers, pedophiles, etc. However, the Bible tells us that such behavior is wrong and that we will not be tempted beyond what we can resist. So those people must have self-control.

The real problem is that most of the world is not Godly. Therefore, they see no behavior as "wrong" as long as it makes you feel good. Even some of the people that believe in God will say things like "God would not have made me this way if it was wrong." Well this is not a Biblical/Godly concept but something people have just thought up on their own.

So your cousin, like everyone else in the world, has to decide to either follow God's will or their own.

Hope this helps.

Think about it -- figure it out.

Answer 4

Why do you think your cousin needs to be "cured"? I don't subscribe to the idea that homosexuality is something you are born with or that you "catch it" somehow. It is a choice, just as everything in life is a choice. Each choice a person makes is up to the chooser. No one else. It is not up to you to choose your cousin's career or clothes or where he/she lives. What makes you think you are responsible for choosing this? Love and acceptance is what we all desire in this life. Give your cousin your love and your acceptance and you will have made a wonderful contribution to his/her life. Allow your cousin to choose what feels right without judgment from you.

Answer 5

Love your cousin just the way he/she is.
You cannot talk them out of it or 'cure' them.
Prayer is a big help, but don't get in their face about it, that will not change anything.
Homosexuality is a sin.
Homosexuals are people.
Jesus died for ALL people.
Their sins are not 'worse' than anyones else's. Love them where they're at, not where you WANT them to be.

Answer 6

Are you serious? Or are you living in a box... let your cousin be who he is... there is NO cure for homosexuality. What you should be asking is how do you get over your fear of homosexuality? Let people live their lives the way they want... they need to answer to no one but God. You are not the judge.

Answer 7

Well I suppose you could just stone him to death,after all last time I checked the bible still says that if a man lies with a man as with a woman that they should be put to death. As for me I don't think he needs curing,if he is in a consensual relationship with another adult what they do is their own business,if he were a child molester well then I would be more than happy to help stone him to death,I'll even bring the stones.

AD

Answer 8

I agree with Figure it out and Char.

There are two ways to live. Everyone needs to make their own choice, but you can pray and show him the matthiasmedia site.

Answer 9

You can't cure him because there is nothing wrong with him/her. The best thing to do is support him/her.

Answer 10

There is no cure because it is not a disease. Too bad there is no cure for bigotry and homophobia.

Answer 11

Ayesha could be right perhaps that is some biological reason. Just continue to love them, as you should, and let your God deal with them (assuming you are Christian.)