suspicions driving me insane!!!!!?

Question

O'kay i really need evrybody to help me here.my wife and have been married for almost two years.i love her very much.when we first met we lived with her paents and it was very rough almost tore us apart.The thing is i work fr her father in construction and alot of the guys know him personally.there were at one time rumors that there was incest going in this family.so i checked it out and paid attention and i now have my susupicions.Let me tell you why. there are a few moments that make me susupicion.The first one is i remember my wife coming to bed and having her father's body order all over her body.another thing is they always try to sneak off together and be very secretive around me.the second thing is when we lived with them i can re-call several times that i know she was locked in the room with him.Please just help me figure out if it's me or is something really wrong?

Answer 1

I would say check into it it.Do some snooping!! If you find it to be true run like hell.
Believe me there are some weird things that go in this world!!

Answer 2

Sounds a bit suspicious, going by the information you just gave. I would've said your wife might just be naturally close to her father but, the fact that they lock themselves away just doesn't seem to fit right.

How is your relationship with your mother-in-law? Maybe you could ask her a few "round-about" questions....if incest is going on, she would know but then again, she may have chosen denial so, that might not be a good choice at all.

Keep your eyes and ears open at all times when you're in the presence of your wife and father-in-law.

Try to do some more checking up. I don't think it is just you...something seems to be amiss here.

Strong suspicious usually turn out to be right.

Answer 3

Sweety there is something going on with this situation. Your wife could have been molested as a child and he's still doing it to her as an adult. I would be very observative when she's around him and if their alone try and put yourself in the middle of what's going on; you are "Family!" If they act as if they don't want u there I would question your wife. You don't want to be in the middle of something like this and most of all you should want to protect your wife from him. Keep me posted on this because her father should be in jail if this is true.

Answer 4

wow. pretty scary.you're going to have your suspicions no matter what. now, i quess, you have to figure out what to do with them. do you want to act on them or push them aside? be careful here. if you wrongly accuse, you'll lose your wife and probably your job. if you let it go, it will eat you up. you obviously need more info. think carefully about those rumors. how long ago did they occur? could someone have been angry with him or your wife and said something stupid? and are those rumors what made you think of everything else?would you have thought of this before you heard them?rumors, as you know, can be very harmful. you could tell her about them and see what she says. don't ask or accuse, just let her know what has been said.if you don't like the answer get out of that situation.
good luck with this.

Answer 5

You really need to be asking your wife these questions. Maybe in the presence of a therapist.

Answer 6

It sounds as if you are not living with them anymore...what is going on now...is she still with him alone alot? Some girls are just daddy's girl, and have a close relationship with their father, and it is nothing more than that.

Answer 7

I'd be suspicious too! The thing is, is it consensual. If she's a willing participant then run like hell.

Answer 8

let her know how u feel. pray.