Can anyone please help me?

Question

I have reached the end of my tunnel, and still see no light. I have no one to turn to and i am desperate and depressed, turning every which way and finding no way out. I have recently gone emo but managed to stop cutting myself. I cant find a way out!! Someone please help me! im tired of sobbing myself to sleep and whispering myself untrue comforts...im only 14, and i want it to stop...Please, what should I do?? Please do me a favour, and just say a quick prayer for me...maybe you can save me...

Answer 1

when you let go of what you are, you will become what you might be
when you let go of what you have, you will receive what you need


have you ever struggled to get work or love and finally given up and found both love and work were suddenly there?

do you want to be free and independent?
conform to God's law; that is how everything happens anyway


when you give up trying to impress others, you will become very impressive
when you are just trying to make yourself look good, those around you know this and they do not like it

your best work will be done when you forget your own point of view
the less you make of yourself~~~the more you are


You asked, "What should I do?"

Let go in order to achieve
Be wise and demonstrate this

Answer 2

You've reached a point where you need help. Not this forum kind of help, real help. See a doctor, he will prescribe some anti depressant medication. And for all those people that are raising their eyebrows, once you've reached THAT point you need medication.
Medication helps block hormones that make you feel so bad, so then you can address the issues you have that make you feel so stressed out. A counsellor in mental health would really be the ideal person. Don't be scared, they are trained in this and talk to lots of people who are just like you.
It could also be that you have bipolar or manic depression, that will be assessed and treated if found. Lots of people have this, its nothing to be ashamed about. But without treatment, it will not get better.
YOur last sentence is a bit unusual.. I hope you are not playing games. Prayers won't help you girl, only you can do that.
You might think there's no way out, but believe me, there ALWAYS is. And what you think is really bad now, in 10 yrs time you will think back and be glad you lived to see another day.
Without knowing what is upsetting you, people can't pass judgement so you really need to get some help. It's nothing to be embarrassed about.
If you kill yourself, you would only hurt everyone around you. What if someone you really loved committed suicide? And you thought you could help if only they told you? Your problems are not worth ending your LIFE. Suicide is final. Permanent. You will be no more. Don't let whatever upset you so much take your life away. Don't let them / it win. Be strong. Tell yourself you are worth more than that, tell yourself you are worth a whole lot.
You might see no light at the end of the tunnel, but I bet someone else could for you and help you through it. You just need to allow someone into your life.
It's ok to ask for help. You are not alone. See your doctor. Ask him for help.

Answer 3

Congratulations on stopping cutting yourself.

Millions of people have been depressed, and suicidal and have come out the other end happy, content and fulfilled. Mary Barnes was one. She wrote a book on it. There was a wonderfula book about Dibs, as well.

The details you give are extremely skimpy, which makes it difficult to make appropriate suggestions.

I have 4 minutes:
Shotgun approach. Try on a very broad front e.g. one or more of the following as appropriate friends, music, prayer, avoiding junk food, exercise, following your conscience, trying to forgive yourself. Doing something boring but really useful e.g. study, and recording it in a diary.

I was a Samaritan they help.

Answer 4

Congrats on stopping cutting yourself.
# 1 See your doctor. and be honest.

I suggest some books to read. They have given me clarity in my life and helped me see beyond the problems of this wonderfully limited body.

"The Celestine Prophecy" by James Redfield

"Jonathon Livingston Seagull" by Richard Bach (It's a very quick and easy read. 126 pages with photo pages in there too.)

Answer 5

Here's what you need to do. Take all that energy that your spending focused on how bad things seem right now and focus them on how YOU'RE going to change them. Submerse yourself in your school work, and how it's going to help you build the kind of life you want for yourself.

Everyone has a voice in their head, and we tend to pay a lot of attention to it, believe it, and create a reality that supports it. When it tells us everything around us is bad, and there's no light, we tend to pay particular attention to everything that makes it true, and ignore whatever doesn't. An easy example of how it works would be observing a racist. When people believe negative things about a group of people, they can completely ignore anything good they hear, see, or have happen to them in regards to the race they hate.

You need to stop listening when your voice tells you there is no light. You have to tune it out, and YOU need to reprogram it to think about forming a plan you can follow through that will make your life better. The truth of it is, there is only one way out of depression. The way out is redirecting your thoughts from useless counterproductive garbage, to productive thoughts that can put you in a position to change, deal with, or successfully remove yourself from the depressing situation.

Try this... Spend some time thinking about what you'd like to be and do when you become and adult. Think about what kind of home you'd like to own, the places you'd love to go, and the kind of family life you'd imagine for yourself, if you could create it. Spend some of your time online looking at colleges and pick some you'd like to attend. Then... tell the voice in your head that you don't want to hear anything except how you're going to work to get yourself to out of your current situation and make your life better. Sitting around crying won't get you anything but more depressed. If you made a promise to yourself to exchange the time you spend crying, for studying, you'll eventually start to feel like you have the power to control, change, and create the life you want for yourself. It may not give you the power to change the situation that is currently depressing you, but it will give you the knowledge and belief that your future is something you can, and are worth, working on.

Answer 6

What is your problem?You are young , you have all your life in front of you.Thing in all these people that live in the streets, without a home ,or in all these youngest ill with cancer....you don't have reason for being sad, y think you are only a spoil child. Wake up!!!Look around you, world is full of problems, your are insignificant. Just live!!We have only one life, don't waste it....

Answer 7

life is like a bike, ya don't fall off unless ya stop pedaling, so honey don't cut the wings of your dreams, for they are the heartbeat and the freedom of your soul. never give!

Answer 8

Talk to your school counselor or another trusted adult. You need medical help for depression.

Answer 9

i would love to pray for you sweety.